"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Well I just broke up with gf... F**K I feel like sh*t!

surferdude

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Didn't know where to vent out but just broke up with gf of 2 months. I know it ain't much time together but I made the mistake of falling for this chick.

Now I'm paying dearly. So if anything, if anyone can benefit from this, then words to the wise. Don't follow your heart if your guts are telling you otherwise.

J
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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kingsam

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is that 2 months scince meeting , or 2 moths scince becoming exclusive

what were the reasons....
 

mtlwlu

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Two months is nothing bro, you'll be over her in less than a week. Just start spinning new plates.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TizZle

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OP. At least you realize you made a mistake. Look back at this situation and try not to make the same mistake again.

Use your gut(logic) first and throughtout your dealings with a woman and don't be so quick to give her your heart. Protecting your heart is one of the first things you need to learn.
 
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