"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well I just broke up with gf... F**K I feel like sh*t!

surferdude

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Didn't know where to vent out but just broke up with gf of 2 months. I know it ain't much time together but I made the mistake of falling for this chick.

Now I'm paying dearly. So if anything, if anyone can benefit from this, then words to the wise. Don't follow your heart if your guts are telling you otherwise.

J
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kingsam

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is that 2 months scince meeting , or 2 moths scince becoming exclusive

what were the reasons....
 

mtlwlu

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Two months is nothing bro, you'll be over her in less than a week. Just start spinning new plates.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TizZle

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OP. At least you realize you made a mistake. Look back at this situation and try not to make the same mistake again.

Use your gut(logic) first and throughtout your dealings with a woman and don't be so quick to give her your heart. Protecting your heart is one of the first things you need to learn.
 
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