"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well I just blew it...

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second date... cooked her dinner, went to a mutual friends for a couple of drinks.. came back to my place.. she got in to her pj's looking like she was going to spend the night and then she just up and bolted...

I guess I dropped the ball bad... I kiddingly said what amounted to "was she ok sleeping on the couch" next thing I new she was like are you going to bed? and then maybe ill just go home..

I just couldnt recover, I pulled the you dont have to leave.... but I quickly just accepted it, and showed her the door.... hug and a good night...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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well she called me first thing this morning... but i was grumpy with her... my cars broken and I was in the middle of pulling it apart when she called.. I was pissed with my car and it sorta came across like i was pissed with her... I was short and told her to call me later....

I guess well see if she calls back today...
 
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emotions?

I have no emotions for her yet... if she doesnt call its not the end of the world...

I am more upset about my fricking car... 11$ part broke and im up ****s creek till i get it... and its sunday and its a dealer only part...

besides its spring break and I think im going to go to the beach with a bunch of friends..

living in florida has its perks....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybe she is upset that you did not make a move on her.

You say she put on her PJ's? That means that she was planning to stay over ahead of time.

One thing I learned is that many women give you a small window of opportunity to make a move. If you screw it up, they are not so forgiving. But since she called you back, there is a chance that you will have another opportunity.
 
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