"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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well I just blew it...

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second date... cooked her dinner, went to a mutual friends for a couple of drinks.. came back to my place.. she got in to her pj's looking like she was going to spend the night and then she just up and bolted...

I guess I dropped the ball bad... I kiddingly said what amounted to "was she ok sleeping on the couch" next thing I new she was like are you going to bed? and then maybe ill just go home..

I just couldnt recover, I pulled the you dont have to leave.... but I quickly just accepted it, and showed her the door.... hug and a good night...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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well she called me first thing this morning... but i was grumpy with her... my cars broken and I was in the middle of pulling it apart when she called.. I was pissed with my car and it sorta came across like i was pissed with her... I was short and told her to call me later....

I guess well see if she calls back today...
 
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emotions?

I have no emotions for her yet... if she doesnt call its not the end of the world...

I am more upset about my fricking car... 11$ part broke and im up ****s creek till i get it... and its sunday and its a dealer only part...

besides its spring break and I think im going to go to the beach with a bunch of friends..

living in florida has its perks....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maybe she is upset that you did not make a move on her.

You say she put on her PJ's? That means that she was planning to stay over ahead of time.

One thing I learned is that many women give you a small window of opportunity to make a move. If you screw it up, they are not so forgiving. But since she called you back, there is a chance that you will have another opportunity.
 
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