That I think it has pretty much been a fear of rejection holding me back. Cause in my mind, in order to get that hot girl, that 7,8,9,10, well, thats what you have to be. You have to be this ideal in order to suceed. Am I wrong on this at all? I mean, it probably stems from either too much time spent alone, or bad negative experiences in the past. I mean, all this time could have been put into learning and recognizing the signals as they say. But no, I chose to stay home and watch porn. It's weird, I work a retail job where I probably talk to hundreds of women per week. You'd think I would be over this.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well, I have accepted the fact...
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