"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well...I didn't think it would be that easy

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Just to let everyone know that my latest cold approach has been a success...I am very surprised that considering this was my first cold approach in over a year that it would be so successful. She called me back today and left a message about making arrangements for this weekend for coffee.

These are the exact words I said to her. Nothing more Nothing less:
"Hi, this may be an unusual question, but you look familiar. Do I know you from somewhere?"
"No, I don't think so but you look familiar too."
"Interesting (pause) what's your name?"
"HB, yours?"
"Manonamission"
"What school do you go to?"
"East coast school, how about you?"
"Inner city school"
"Cool. (At this time she had finished ringing up my items) Well it was nice to meet you, would you mind giving me your phone number?"

The reason I posted this is because I'd like some feedback on my opening line, has anyone ever used this as an icebreaker?

I guess that's pretty much it. I just thought I'd post my results for guys that are relatively new to this, and it's really a lot easier than that little voice inside your head makes you think.

-MOAM
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well, most people would consider your opening line a pretty cheesy one, and I'm sure she's heard it before. It's innocuous enough to seem innocent, if you say it naturally. Getting the number is nothing at all though! I could get numbers all day.

Is it the real number?

Does she call you back?

Does she meet you?

Those are the important questions. If the answer to one or all of those was 'no' the reason was because you didn't create a real connection with her.
 
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superchristx said:
Well, most people would consider your opening line a pretty cheesy one, and I'm sure she's heard it before. It's innocuous enough to seem innocent, if you say it naturally. Getting the number is nothing at all though! I could get numbers all day.

Is it the real number?

Does she call you back?

Does she meet you?

Those are the important questions. If the answer to one or all of those was 'no' the reason was because you didn't create a real connection with her.
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Yes, I mentioned this in my post. She called me back and left a message about making arrangements for coffee.
 
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Nice! I used something like that but a bit different.

Canadiandon
Exuse me? Sorry but dont I know you?

Girl
no I dont think so.

Canadiandon
Didnt we spend the night together some time ago.

Girl
(smile)
No I think you have me mistaken with someone else.

Canadiandon
Do you want to spend the night with me anyways?

Girl
(laughing playfully)
Sorry huni I`m married

Canadiandon
So it was you!

Girl
HAHAHAHA! stop it! ........you are funny but again sorry I cant I love my husband.

Canadiandon
Ok well nice meeting you..............................again

Girl
HAHAHAHA! You are so cute...........well Ill be here next week around the same time I gotta go.

Canadiandon
alright talk to ya later.
 
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Nice C&F Canadian. Great one really! (So it was you!) hahaha
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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