"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well...I didn't think it would be that easy

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Just to let everyone know that my latest cold approach has been a success...I am very surprised that considering this was my first cold approach in over a year that it would be so successful. She called me back today and left a message about making arrangements for this weekend for coffee.

These are the exact words I said to her. Nothing more Nothing less:
"Hi, this may be an unusual question, but you look familiar. Do I know you from somewhere?"
"No, I don't think so but you look familiar too."
"Interesting (pause) what's your name?"
"HB, yours?"
"Manonamission"
"What school do you go to?"
"East coast school, how about you?"
"Inner city school"
"Cool. (At this time she had finished ringing up my items) Well it was nice to meet you, would you mind giving me your phone number?"

The reason I posted this is because I'd like some feedback on my opening line, has anyone ever used this as an icebreaker?

I guess that's pretty much it. I just thought I'd post my results for guys that are relatively new to this, and it's really a lot easier than that little voice inside your head makes you think.

-MOAM
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, most people would consider your opening line a pretty cheesy one, and I'm sure she's heard it before. It's innocuous enough to seem innocent, if you say it naturally. Getting the number is nothing at all though! I could get numbers all day.

Is it the real number?

Does she call you back?

Does she meet you?

Those are the important questions. If the answer to one or all of those was 'no' the reason was because you didn't create a real connection with her.
 
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Manonamission

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superchristx said:
Well, most people would consider your opening line a pretty cheesy one, and I'm sure she's heard it before. It's innocuous enough to seem innocent, if you say it naturally. Getting the number is nothing at all though! I could get numbers all day.

Is it the real number?

Does she call you back?

Does she meet you?

Those are the important questions. If the answer to one or all of those was 'no' the reason was because you didn't create a real connection with her.
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Yes, I mentioned this in my post. She called me back and left a message about making arrangements for coffee.
 
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Nice! I used something like that but a bit different.

Canadiandon
Exuse me? Sorry but dont I know you?

Girl
no I dont think so.

Canadiandon
Didnt we spend the night together some time ago.

Girl
(smile)
No I think you have me mistaken with someone else.

Canadiandon
Do you want to spend the night with me anyways?

Girl
(laughing playfully)
Sorry huni I`m married

Canadiandon
So it was you!

Girl
HAHAHAHA! stop it! ........you are funny but again sorry I cant I love my husband.

Canadiandon
Ok well nice meeting you..............................again

Girl
HAHAHAHA! You are so cute...........well Ill be here next week around the same time I gotta go.

Canadiandon
alright talk to ya later.
 
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Nice C&F Canadian. Great one really! (So it was you!) hahaha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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