Colin O'Brien
Don Juan
dude you're only 18? get over her and move on, thats all I have to say
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LOL, that poor b!tch. If this wasnt so cringeworthy it would be funny.I don't feel like dispensing all of the information but she said they didn't have sex for that long. So I asked how long...she said, "10 minutes." Yeah, not long. She said she didn't enjoy it at all.
Ahhh. . .teagan said:[/CODE]you.Code:[CODE]Hey guys, The morals of the story: -Don't trust women no matter how good they are to
-Don't ever go back to somone who cheats on you
-Heart break is the worst feeling ever, I actually puked I felt so bad after finding out
-And, revenge makes everything feel better
Writing this has made me feel a lot better. Thanks guys and again sorry for the rant,
Teagan
P.S.-Im telling her mom she cheated on me and she is semi-addicted to some powerful medication. Im gonna get some sweet a** revenge!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
( . )( . ) said:Well....Hate to say it but reading your post and your replies that dwell on the "why's and buts" shows me your pretty much a textbook loser and still have no idea about how sh!t really works.
LOL, that poor b!tch. If this wasnt so cringeworthy it would be funny.
So the good news is it was nothing personal, meaning it was the standard logical route for her to take.
Bad news is you got alot of work ahead of you, which when you think about it isnt that bad, it's actually very good and fun and challenging. Oh and one other thing which I'm actually envious of...Your 18, thats a hell of a head start.![]()
Get busy mate.
Yep, yep, yep ------> That would be mad FUNNY! :crackup:j-flex said:tell her mother!!!
that will be very funny.
seriously tell her, that is the best revenge ever.
LMAO :crackup:Rollo Tomassi said:Chickspeak to English Translation: "I ƒucked another guy, because you do everything for me."
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.