Colin O'Brien
Don Juan
dude you're only 18? get over her and move on, thats all I have to say
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LOL, that poor b!tch. If this wasnt so cringeworthy it would be funny.I don't feel like dispensing all of the information but she said they didn't have sex for that long. So I asked how long...she said, "10 minutes." Yeah, not long. She said she didn't enjoy it at all.
Ahhh. . .teagan said:[/CODE]you.Code:[CODE]Hey guys, The morals of the story: -Don't trust women no matter how good they are to
-Don't ever go back to somone who cheats on you
-Heart break is the worst feeling ever, I actually puked I felt so bad after finding out
-And, revenge makes everything feel better
Writing this has made me feel a lot better. Thanks guys and again sorry for the rant,
Teagan
P.S.-Im telling her mom she cheated on me and she is semi-addicted to some powerful medication. Im gonna get some sweet a** revenge!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
( . )( . ) said:Well....Hate to say it but reading your post and your replies that dwell on the "why's and buts" shows me your pretty much a textbook loser and still have no idea about how sh!t really works.
LOL, that poor b!tch. If this wasnt so cringeworthy it would be funny.
So the good news is it was nothing personal, meaning it was the standard logical route for her to take.
Bad news is you got alot of work ahead of you, which when you think about it isnt that bad, it's actually very good and fun and challenging. Oh and one other thing which I'm actually envious of...Your 18, thats a hell of a head start.![]()
Get busy mate.
Yep, yep, yep ------> That would be mad FUNNY! :crackup:j-flex said:tell her mother!!!
that will be very funny.
seriously tell her, that is the best revenge ever.
LMAO :crackup:Rollo Tomassi said:Chickspeak to English Translation: "I ƒucked another guy, because you do everything for me."
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.