Well 6 months (30 weekends) and it's over,experienced DJ'S what would you have done?

[Red Legg]

Yup, he's a deadbeat/thug/jailbird.

Again, typical woman of this market. But guys on this forum will say it's because you didn't wear a certain suit, a certain tie, use a certain line, use a certain brand of toothpaste in the morning, or (insert some other non-relevant shyt here that has absolutely nothing to do with the FACT we are having to date retarded a.ss women)

He usually watched the kids when she drove down to see me..I think he was hoping I would foot his bill for his seed.. (never going to happen) I also noticed she didn't seem to be pushing for any money either...probably because she still had feelings for him,like Desdinova says in his high score theory that I think is spot on..

 

[Red Legg]

The only advice I have for you is to not get into relationships with chicks... Other than that I don't think you did anything wrong. I never expect women I am seeing to be exclusive with me... I always expect they are fvcking other dudes... I really don't care, I wear condoms. That way I don't expect anything and I never have to deal with negative emotions like anger and jealousy.

I disagree with you on one point though...it is possible that by me "agreeing" to be exclusive that I PROLONGED getting pvssy and free dinners and sh!t for longer than if i had NOT agreed to become "exclusive"

 

[ubercat]

I'm not sure I'm buying on the zero fvcks. Spending all weekends together seems boyfriend territory. I stand by my comment..admit it or not you were on the relationship bus and feelings were caught. Remember mate you come here for the honesty.

 

[lizardking82]

Listen, she was coming over to **** you every weekend. Right now, your ego is gone a bit off limit. You don't own this woman. Maybe a guy to have sex and dates with is not her top priority right now and she's looking for a provider. Maybe she's a serial ***** and she just cannot keep away from side ****. Maybe this, maybe that. I would only say "try to stop worrying about who she might be ****in' unless you're her boyfriend".

 

[soulforge]

No no...I am saying he should have just kept his mouth shut and kept fvcking her...

I am saying it was pointless to even bring this up to her, and pointless to pretend there is some exclusvity going on.

I agree with this... but only if he was NOT emotionally invested, this could have worked...

but man had the feels for her, and obviously this was eating away at him.

It's pure manipulation... when she got caught out, she used the whole "You Don't Trust Me Card" on him..

she wanted him to accept things they way they where, or else it was over.

If you can completely dethatch your feelings from this chick, ONLY then would I continue banging her, maybe let some of your pals smash her too.. Introduce her to a 3sum maybe..

if you cannot dethatch feeling.. I would drop this chick and go complete NC

 

[RangerMIke]

I disagree with you on one point though...it is possible that by me "agreeing" to be exclusive that I PROLONGED getting pvssy and free dinners and sh!t for longer than if i had NOT agreed to become "exclusive"

This is why I have more than one chick... you just have to keep rotating them in. You can have a starting pitcher, but you have to be able to bring in relief.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I met a single mom HB 8 on Tinder December 7,she was very pretty blonde,blue eyes and showed very high interest.She had two young kids that were very loud and she was not a very good disciplinarian ,she also drinks quite heavily.We talked on Tinder for 10 days then she invited me over for drinks ( she lives 90 miles away) I showed up and we had sex after 10 minutes of talking I spent the night there.We would rotate every week with her coming to see me for the weekend then me coming to see her.We agreed to be exclusive in January.3 weeks later I stayed over and looked at her phone and she was talking to four men on there one of them she was flirting with and had started a conversation with he is also a co worker.I got mad but kept it too myself and did not say anything because she was cooking me dinner,driving too see me and I had sex on tap.We did not miss one weekend for 30 weeks.Then one night (July 4) I asked her about it.She said they were just friends and asked me if I trusted her, I said no she then cried and said there was no reason to hang out anymore then.So when I got home I sent her a breakup text and she un-relationshiped me on Facebook.The weekend is fast approaching and it is her turn,what should I do? just remain NC?try and smooth it over? what would you DJ's do? Keep her as a plate?

going through something similar myself now , as much as i hate to admit it to myself i have to move on

i see a woman sort of like a blank canvas when i meet her , a canvas i can paint my ideals, morals and respect on .....it is up to both of us then to maintain this canvas ( relationship )

once she does something to tarnish you're painting then you are done ..... you can choose to paint over it but it will never look the same as it once did

tough to swallow but there are other women out there so you need to plod onto the next one

 

[Red Legg]

I agree with this... but only if he was NOT emotionally invested, this could have worked...

but man had the feels for her, and obviously this was eating away at him.

It's pure manipulation... when she got caught out, she used the whole "You Don't Trust Me Card" on him..

she wanted him to accept things they way they where, or else it was over.

If you can completely dethatch your feelings from this chick, ONLY then would I continue banging her, maybe let some of your pals smash her too.. Introduce her to a 3sum maybe..

if you cannot dethatch feeling.. I would drop this chick and go complete NC

Thanks, I will ask her for a 3 way Saturday..