Balls????
Hahah thanks for the compliment.
I don't know if you've read my intro. But I had no girls or even friend that are girls my whole life until last August and I'm 19 yrs old now. I think that plays a role to motivate me. :box:
For tips, I recommend you to go out there with a friend. He/she can help you be in a fun mood plus if you screwed up at least you got someone to laugh with. *Warning: Gotta make sure that person is encouraging, I've experienced wings who tried to discouraged me in the past.* :kick: Also, the feeling of one good approach can overcome 2 or 3 approaches. So you should not give up after the bad approach. The bad approaches usually outnumber the good ones but the good ones are more worth it. Because the one that rejected you are usually girls who got a bf, they're not interested or they're just materialistic. I'm sure you don't want to invite those girls in your life. :nono:
I agree/disagree with you about the opener. Complimenting something about her looks is more unique than trying to hide it. Seriously, how many guys or even friends of your told you to not show disinterest in the girl and be a jerk. Plenty!!! How ironic since those guys are the one that usually don't get laid. Even my friend who know nothing about seduction told me to not comment on her look. And to make sure, he's not good with girls either. Girls spend hours trying to look good so a guy can act disinterest in her? No!:cuss: But I do agree with you on that same opening line. I'm sick of it sometimes because it seem more like a memorized line. Think of Mystery Method but more direct. But what's so great about these memorized lines are the fact that they helped my anxiety to decreases when I approach a girl plus it's also genuine. Thinking of what to say while dealing with that feeling inside my body is hard sometimes. I might add something here and there to the opener as my approach anxiety decrease later on but the elements will still be there(my desire, interest, and intention for her.) I guess you still want to know why I prefer to use openers that related to her look.....simple.....BECAUSE THAT IS ALL I SEE from her. Simple as that, might be harsh but that's the truth. Most guys prefer looks. Now, I can just say "Hi, what book do you recommend?" It will still come down to her thinking "Why is he asking me? There are workers here." You can just tell her right there that you think she's pretty or lied and say "I'm just looking for something good to read and you seem like a good reader." From my experienced, most girls usually feel comfortable and more outgoing after you tell her why. Because she knows you could be hosting some MTV shows and trying to play a prank on her. Either way is good to open to a girl. But I prefer direct because the reasons are that it save me time, money and help me conquer the fear of being rejected. I've had bad experiences with some girls before when I was using DYD, MM and Juggler Method. DYD and MM taught to not show interest in girls and thus, girls only thought I just wanna be friends and never told me they have a bf or married(which happens before. I ended up thinking about her for weeks just to find out she was married.) Juggler Method taught me to be genuinely interested in a girl but it never taught me to tell her my intention so the girls end up thinking I just want to stick around and talk with them. I've wasted so many time using Juggler Method because the girls thought I really wanted to sit there and listen to problems with their boyfriend but the real reason I wanna fvck the sh*t out of her. Even when I finally tell them I find them *sexy* they would just gave me a wierd look. You can check my old posts in the other threads if you want to see me do DYD, MM and Juggler.
Ever since I started Direct, I begin to have more times to spare and feel more confident because unlike most guys, I told her outright that I find her attractive. I lay my cards down and now it's up to the girl to decide. If the girl is interested in you then she will respond in a good way. :rockon: From there on you know you're in. But if she walks away, tell you she got a boyfriend or not interested. You just save yourself some precious times my friend. :moon: What I've learned is no matter how good you are in the seduction game, if the girl have no interest in you there is nothing you can do about it to make her become interest in you. You have to learn to let it go. I'm still learning too. Direct can be a little risky sometimes. But "the biggest risk is not taking a risk."
Creepy? hahah of course not. Now.....if you walked around and she notice you doing that but you still not approach her, then that's creepy. You're doing your job and that's being the selector. Of course some will think you're creepy. But I only had that happen to me once and the girl was just average in my book.
Wow...this is long. I hope it help you some way on your journey. If not, at least READ IT! :cuss: But remember, every method works. It's how you do it. I just like being direct, that's it.
*note* I add in the smiley face to make you stay awake.
Hahah thanks for the compliment.
I don't know if you've read my intro. But I had no girls or even friend that are girls my whole life until last August and I'm 19 yrs old now. I think that plays a role to motivate me. :box:For tips, I recommend you to go out there with a friend. He/she can help you be in a fun mood plus if you screwed up at least you got someone to laugh with. *Warning: Gotta make sure that person is encouraging, I've experienced wings who tried to discouraged me in the past.* :kick: Also, the feeling of one good approach can overcome 2 or 3 approaches. So you should not give up after the bad approach. The bad approaches usually outnumber the good ones but the good ones are more worth it. Because the one that rejected you are usually girls who got a bf, they're not interested or they're just materialistic. I'm sure you don't want to invite those girls in your life. :nono:
I agree/disagree with you about the opener. Complimenting something about her looks is more unique than trying to hide it. Seriously, how many guys or even friends of your told you to not show disinterest in the girl and be a jerk. Plenty!!! How ironic since those guys are the one that usually don't get laid. Even my friend who know nothing about seduction told me to not comment on her look. And to make sure, he's not good with girls either. Girls spend hours trying to look good so a guy can act disinterest in her? No!:cuss: But I do agree with you on that same opening line. I'm sick of it sometimes because it seem more like a memorized line. Think of Mystery Method but more direct. But what's so great about these memorized lines are the fact that they helped my anxiety to decreases when I approach a girl plus it's also genuine. Thinking of what to say while dealing with that feeling inside my body is hard sometimes. I might add something here and there to the opener as my approach anxiety decrease later on but the elements will still be there(my desire, interest, and intention for her.) I guess you still want to know why I prefer to use openers that related to her look.....simple.....BECAUSE THAT IS ALL I SEE from her. Simple as that, might be harsh but that's the truth. Most guys prefer looks. Now, I can just say "Hi, what book do you recommend?"
It will still come down to her thinking "Why is he asking me? There are workers here." You can just tell her right there that you think she's pretty or lied and say "I'm just looking for something good to read and you seem like a good reader." From my experienced, most girls usually feel comfortable and more outgoing after you tell her why. Because she knows you could be hosting some MTV shows and trying to play a prank on her. Either way is good to open to a girl. But I prefer direct because the reasons are that it save me time, money and help me conquer the fear of being rejected. I've had bad experiences with some girls before when I was using DYD, MM and Juggler Method. DYD and MM taught to not show interest in girls and thus, girls only thought I just wanna be friends and never told me they have a bf or married(which happens before. I ended up thinking about her for weeks just to find out she was married.) Juggler Method taught me to be genuinely interested in a girl but it never taught me to tell her my intention so the girls end up thinking I just want to stick around and talk with them. I've wasted so many time using Juggler Method because the girls thought I really wanted to sit there and listen to problems with their boyfriend but the real reason I wanna fvck the sh*t out of her. Even when I finally tell them I find them *sexy* they would just gave me a wierd look. You can check my old posts in the other threads if you want to see me do DYD, MM and Juggler. Ever since I started Direct, I begin to have more times to spare and feel more confident because unlike most guys, I told her outright that I find her attractive. I lay my cards down and now it's up to the girl to decide. If the girl is interested in you then she will respond in a good way. :rockon: From there on you know you're in. But if she walks away, tell you she got a boyfriend or not interested. You just save yourself some precious times my friend. :moon: What I've learned is no matter how good you are in the seduction game, if the girl have no interest in you there is nothing you can do about it to make her become interest in you. You have to learn to let it go. I'm still learning too. Direct can be a little risky sometimes. But "the biggest risk is not taking a risk."
Creepy? hahah of course not. Now.....if you walked around and she notice you doing that but you still not approach her, then that's creepy.
You're doing your job and that's being the selector. Of course some will think you're creepy. But I only had that happen to me once and the girl was just average in my book. Wow...this is long. I hope it help you some way on your journey. If not, at least READ IT! :cuss: But remember, every method works. It's how you do it. I just like being direct, that's it.
*note* I add in the smiley face to make you stay awake.