"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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welcome more girls on this forum

KneghtRyder

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at first i was pretty against it , but i see good advice coming from some of the users like penkitten i think it 'll be a good change ...what do you think
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There is nothing wrong with receiving a woman's perspective - it brings us their thinking to the forefront, albeit a distorted one at that - one in their favor!! :rolleyes:
 

Falcon

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I never had a problem with female posters here (unless if they start a lot of drama and such). Some good ones that pop up into mind are Bad lil Pixie, penkitten, and girl_in_a_boy_forum. As far as welcoming more or getting more to come here... nah. If they choose to come, then so be it, but we shouldn't actively 'seek' more.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Falcon

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spesmilitis said:
. . . penkitten is a girl????!?!??
well, yea. I mean, you wouldn't expect a male to have that alias... right?
 

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I don't like them. They always try to make a good husband out of you. Even over the internet, what a bunch of insecure broads. Sure, I'll read her advice, but then I'd think of all what's wrong with her.

But then again, on a 1 to 10 correctness scale, your average male poster on here is between 1 and 5, a female is between 5 and 6.

Welcoming does not sound like a good idea. If they come, so be it. Don't bring your e-love of your e-life on here, she'll e-dump you.
 

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You guys have read the bit in the DJ bible about womans advice being bad? If it applies in real life why not here?

This is like the first thing I learnt about dating. A very very small percentage of women can give dating advice.

And just why the hell would we want more women? They're only productive when they're in the background.
 
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