KneghtRyder
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at first i was pretty against it , but i see good advice coming from some of the users like penkitten i think it 'll be a good change ...what do you think
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
welcome more girls on this forum
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
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Last Man Standing
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There is nothing wrong with receiving a woman's perspective - it brings us their thinking to the forefront, albeit a distorted one at that - one in their favor!! 
I never had a problem with female posters here (unless if they start a lot of drama and such). Some good ones that pop up into mind are Bad lil Pixie, penkitten, and girl_in_a_boy_forum. As far as welcoming more or getting more to come here... nah. If they choose to come, then so be it, but we shouldn't actively 'seek' more.
spesmilitis
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. . . penkitten is a girl????!?!??
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
djSlvt
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I don't like them. They always try to make a good husband out of you. Even over the internet, what a bunch of insecure broads. Sure, I'll read her advice, but then I'd think of all what's wrong with her.
But then again, on a 1 to 10 correctness scale, your average male poster on here is between 1 and 5, a female is between 5 and 6.
Welcoming does not sound like a good idea. If they come, so be it. Don't bring your e-love of your e-life on here, she'll e-dump you.
But then again, on a 1 to 10 correctness scale, your average male poster on here is between 1 and 5, a female is between 5 and 6.
Welcoming does not sound like a good idea. If they come, so be it. Don't bring your e-love of your e-life on here, she'll e-dump you.
You guys have read the bit in the DJ bible about womans advice being bad? If it applies in real life why not here?
This is like the first thing I learnt about dating. A very very small percentage of women can give dating advice.
And just why the hell would we want more women? They're only productive when they're in the background.
This is like the first thing I learnt about dating. A very very small percentage of women can give dating advice.
And just why the hell would we want more women? They're only productive when they're in the background.