KneghtRyder
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at first i was pretty against it , but i see good advice coming from some of the users like penkitten i think it 'll be a good change ...what do you think
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
welcome more girls on this forum
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
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There is nothing wrong with receiving a woman's perspective - it brings us their thinking to the forefront, albeit a distorted one at that - one in their favor!! 
I never had a problem with female posters here (unless if they start a lot of drama and such). Some good ones that pop up into mind are Bad lil Pixie, penkitten, and girl_in_a_boy_forum. As far as welcoming more or getting more to come here... nah. If they choose to come, then so be it, but we shouldn't actively 'seek' more.
spesmilitis
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. . . penkitten is a girl????!?!??
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
djSlvt
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I don't like them. They always try to make a good husband out of you. Even over the internet, what a bunch of insecure broads. Sure, I'll read her advice, but then I'd think of all what's wrong with her.
But then again, on a 1 to 10 correctness scale, your average male poster on here is between 1 and 5, a female is between 5 and 6.
Welcoming does not sound like a good idea. If they come, so be it. Don't bring your e-love of your e-life on here, she'll e-dump you.
But then again, on a 1 to 10 correctness scale, your average male poster on here is between 1 and 5, a female is between 5 and 6.
Welcoming does not sound like a good idea. If they come, so be it. Don't bring your e-love of your e-life on here, she'll e-dump you.
You guys have read the bit in the DJ bible about womans advice being bad? If it applies in real life why not here?
This is like the first thing I learnt about dating. A very very small percentage of women can give dating advice.
And just why the hell would we want more women? They're only productive when they're in the background.
This is like the first thing I learnt about dating. A very very small percentage of women can give dating advice.
And just why the hell would we want more women? They're only productive when they're in the background.