Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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welcome more girls on this forum

KneghtRyder

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at first i was pretty against it , but i see good advice coming from some of the users like penkitten i think it 'll be a good change ...what do you think
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There is nothing wrong with receiving a woman's perspective - it brings us their thinking to the forefront, albeit a distorted one at that - one in their favor!! :rolleyes:
 

Falcon

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I never had a problem with female posters here (unless if they start a lot of drama and such). Some good ones that pop up into mind are Bad lil Pixie, penkitten, and girl_in_a_boy_forum. As far as welcoming more or getting more to come here... nah. If they choose to come, then so be it, but we shouldn't actively 'seek' more.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Falcon

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spesmilitis said:
. . . penkitten is a girl????!?!??
well, yea. I mean, you wouldn't expect a male to have that alias... right?
 

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I don't like them. They always try to make a good husband out of you. Even over the internet, what a bunch of insecure broads. Sure, I'll read her advice, but then I'd think of all what's wrong with her.

But then again, on a 1 to 10 correctness scale, your average male poster on here is between 1 and 5, a female is between 5 and 6.

Welcoming does not sound like a good idea. If they come, so be it. Don't bring your e-love of your e-life on here, she'll e-dump you.
 

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You guys have read the bit in the DJ bible about womans advice being bad? If it applies in real life why not here?

This is like the first thing I learnt about dating. A very very small percentage of women can give dating advice.

And just why the hell would we want more women? They're only productive when they're in the background.
 
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