"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Weirdest thing happened today...

theunflushables

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I am an aspiring photographer and got this girl I used to work with to be my first model. When we use to work together we would joke around and have a good time but nothing sexual as it was work. But since, I am no longer there, its time to pounce.

Anyways, she is in my bathroom with the door open doing her hair and getting ready for the shoot. I am standing out in the hall. She asks if she should try on anything else and I tell her to put on the skirt. Without shutting the door she takes off her pants and is there in her thong, grabs the skirt and puts it on. Now, I'm stunned at what just happened and wonder if she just spaced out and forgot I was there. I told her the skirt didnt look good and to get back into the pants. She does it again!

It get me paranoid that I may be "one of the girls" to her but during the shoot and afterward she was giving off strong vibes. Could have kiss closed but she had a cold sore. Instead, I'm photoshopping the cold sore out. lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Warrior74

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Be smooth man. Don't get riled up cause a chic changed clothes in front of you. Act like it happens every day. Just ask her to come by your place to hang out and see what she says. No pressure, no wolf staring at a steak look in your eye. Nice and casual. Then put the moves on her from there. Nice and easy.
 

bukowski_merit

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there's something very intimate about taking pictures of a woman one-on-one...

it's instant comfort... and no matter what - instant tension...
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the cold sore thing would have bothered me too... so i can understand how that would hold you back... much better that you didn't kiss her and catch it!
 

theunflushables

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Warrior74 said:
Be smooth man. Don't get riled up cause a chic changed clothes in front of you. Act like it happens every day. Just ask her to come by your place to hang out and see what she says. No pressure, no wolf staring at a steak look in your eye. Nice and casual. Then put the moves on her from there. Nice and easy.
Oh, no I didnt get all bothered when she dropped her pants. I was busy cleaning a lens filter, I took a quick glance and went back to cleaning the filter without saying anything about it.

And I'm not riled up about it after the thought either. Just found it strange in a humorous way that this girl I havent really ever hung out with outside of work felt comfortable enough to change in front of me.

I am going to be giving her call tomorrow and see whats up for later in the week. Hang out then and see where things go.
 

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theunflushables

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bukowski_merit said:
there's something very intimate about taking pictures of a woman one-on-one...

it's instant comfort... and no matter what - instant tension...
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the cold sore thing would have bothered me too... so i can understand how that would hold you back... much better that you didn't kiss her and catch it!
And yes, I noticed this too. I might have to start carrying my camera around more often. Hell, on the fourth of July it got me into a bar cover free. lol
 
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