“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Weirdest thing happened today...

theunflushables

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I am an aspiring photographer and got this girl I used to work with to be my first model. When we use to work together we would joke around and have a good time but nothing sexual as it was work. But since, I am no longer there, its time to pounce.

Anyways, she is in my bathroom with the door open doing her hair and getting ready for the shoot. I am standing out in the hall. She asks if she should try on anything else and I tell her to put on the skirt. Without shutting the door she takes off her pants and is there in her thong, grabs the skirt and puts it on. Now, I'm stunned at what just happened and wonder if she just spaced out and forgot I was there. I told her the skirt didnt look good and to get back into the pants. She does it again!

It get me paranoid that I may be "one of the girls" to her but during the shoot and afterward she was giving off strong vibes. Could have kiss closed but she had a cold sore. Instead, I'm photoshopping the cold sore out. lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Be smooth man. Don't get riled up cause a chic changed clothes in front of you. Act like it happens every day. Just ask her to come by your place to hang out and see what she says. No pressure, no wolf staring at a steak look in your eye. Nice and casual. Then put the moves on her from there. Nice and easy.
 

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there's something very intimate about taking pictures of a woman one-on-one...

it's instant comfort... and no matter what - instant tension...
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the cold sore thing would have bothered me too... so i can understand how that would hold you back... much better that you didn't kiss her and catch it!
 

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Warrior74 said:
Be smooth man. Don't get riled up cause a chic changed clothes in front of you. Act like it happens every day. Just ask her to come by your place to hang out and see what she says. No pressure, no wolf staring at a steak look in your eye. Nice and casual. Then put the moves on her from there. Nice and easy.
Oh, no I didnt get all bothered when she dropped her pants. I was busy cleaning a lens filter, I took a quick glance and went back to cleaning the filter without saying anything about it.

And I'm not riled up about it after the thought either. Just found it strange in a humorous way that this girl I havent really ever hung out with outside of work felt comfortable enough to change in front of me.

I am going to be giving her call tomorrow and see whats up for later in the week. Hang out then and see where things go.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bukowski_merit said:
there's something very intimate about taking pictures of a woman one-on-one...

it's instant comfort... and no matter what - instant tension...
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the cold sore thing would have bothered me too... so i can understand how that would hold you back... much better that you didn't kiss her and catch it!
And yes, I noticed this too. I might have to start carrying my camera around more often. Hell, on the fourth of July it got me into a bar cover free. lol
 
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