"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Aesthetix29

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Okay as you no I broke up with my girl 2 weeks ago, and been NC ever since... The thing is in the last two days one of her close friends keep liking my social media statuses and another one of her good friends who is a lesbian messaged me today saying she just drove past me. Is it just me or is that a bit weird? As I would of thought she'd be slagging me off too her friends for whatever reason and for the two of them too contact me on the same day.... Am I looking too much into this? I'm only assuming as she can't see my Facebook profile. It's just got me thinking?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yewki

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You're most definitely over thinking this. I'm not even sure what your question/issue is. Maybe your ex is using her friends in some plot to manipulate you, or maybe not. Who cares? On a related note, stop using Facebook.
 

Between_The_Lines

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You plan on moving on and dating other girls eventually, right? Well, I'll tell you this much: that way of thinking, of zooming in on minutia (ex. "My ex's latest status update read 'Everything happens for a reason.....', what do you think that means, especially adding five periods at the end like that? Was that intended for me? Does that mean another guy's in the picture?") - will put you in the highly unfavorable position of getting obliterated in the dating world once you get back out there. Also, anyone who helps you dissect these 'cryptic' behaviors is hurting you by reinforcing futile, self-damaging habits.

You want everything to start falling into place for you? Focus on yourself first, and as for everyone else, only those who add value to your life and want to be a part of your life.
 
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