"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aesthetix29

Aesthetix29

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Okay as you no I broke up with my girl 2 weeks ago, and been NC ever since... The thing is in the last two days one of her close friends keep liking my social media statuses and another one of her good friends who is a lesbian messaged me today saying she just drove past me. Is it just me or is that a bit weird? As I would of thought she'd be slagging me off too her friends for whatever reason and for the two of them too contact me on the same day.... Am I looking too much into this? I'm only assuming as she can't see my Facebook profile. It's just got me thinking?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yewki

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You're most definitely over thinking this. I'm not even sure what your question/issue is. Maybe your ex is using her friends in some plot to manipulate you, or maybe not. Who cares? On a related note, stop using Facebook.
 
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Between_The_Lines

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You plan on moving on and dating other girls eventually, right? Well, I'll tell you this much: that way of thinking, of zooming in on minutia (ex. "My ex's latest status update read 'Everything happens for a reason.....', what do you think that means, especially adding five periods at the end like that? Was that intended for me? Does that mean another guy's in the picture?") - will put you in the highly unfavorable position of getting obliterated in the dating world once you get back out there. Also, anyone who helps you dissect these 'cryptic' behaviors is hurting you by reinforcing futile, self-damaging habits.

You want everything to start falling into place for you? Focus on yourself first, and as for everyone else, only those who add value to your life and want to be a part of your life.
 
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