A lot of people think I am weird. I want to solve this problem. For, example this one girl I like, she wasn't eating or drinking much so I got concerned. I went out of my way to help her, even drove to where she worked to see if she was okay. She found this weird according to this girl.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Weird
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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weird..maybe you should seek help?
or maybe you should'nt be soo concerned about what people think about you.
Weirdo! lol
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Weird is cool if that's your thing..it's better then being called a psycho or a serial killer lol.Also,what makes you weird and why would they call you weird?
the things you do? how you act? weird is cool and interesting because in a world of normalcy and monautness routine..sometimes you have to act a little crazy to have some fun..just a little though,you don't wanna end up in jail or anything.
or maybe you should'nt be soo concerned about what people think about you.
Weirdo! lol
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Weird is cool if that's your thing..it's better then being called a psycho or a serial killer lol.Also,what makes you weird and why would they call you weird?
the things you do? how you act? weird is cool and interesting because in a world of normalcy and monautness routine..sometimes you have to act a little crazy to have some fun..just a little though,you don't wanna end up in jail or anything.
Alphamale1821
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Look at it this way. When i've been called weird i say "yeah i know i'm so weird it's cool". Another time went like this.
Cara: Chuk your so weird
me: yeah i know i love being weird
Cara: (flirty laugh) yeah your pretty good at it.
Now granted when i'm called weird it's in more of a out of norm sense but in a cool way. I'm considered weird in a sense that I'm an individual and i don't care if something i do is stupid or foreign to others because it's who i am. My weirdness is a part of my cool personality.
Work on turning your "weirdness" into a positive. My weirdness is cool because it conveys a sense of style and mystery. Unlike some "weirdness" which conveys creepy and unattractiveness.
Cara: Chuk your so weird
me: yeah i know i love being weird
Cara: (flirty laugh) yeah your pretty good at it.
Now granted when i'm called weird it's in more of a out of norm sense but in a cool way. I'm considered weird in a sense that I'm an individual and i don't care if something i do is stupid or foreign to others because it's who i am. My weirdness is a part of my cool personality.
Work on turning your "weirdness" into a positive. My weirdness is cool because it conveys a sense of style and mystery. Unlike some "weirdness" which conveys creepy and unattractiveness.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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weird or strangeness is a positive quirk some people were fortunant enough to have.Anna Faris of the scary movies series is HOT,Jenny Mcarthy is also a weirdo..but she is HOT,Amanda Bynes had her own show called the Amanda show and she was also weird,.but HOT.Look at all the cool stars too..Jack Black,Will Farrel,Jim Carrey..these are all of the wall guys but also highly successfull..they reconized their uniqueness and built upon it.
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I would'nt go as far as saying that he had MAJOR case of social awkwardness/AFCness. lolPhyzzle said:
he was worried about her,so he did something about it.At least he took action and did something.It beats the heck out of worrying about it,going online ,taking a poll of what other people would do then go off to do whatever they advised :kick:
true he may have jumped the gun but you live and learn :woo:
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Alkali said:
lol she WAS annoying as hell on that show,I don't remember what skit it was but she kept screaming and screaming at her pet parrot or something like that.She has filled out quite nicely now and alot less eccentric then before.She was HOT in that one movie She's the man
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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... And proud of it. Thank Baal I'm not normal (saying the word "normal" with a derisive tone).
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Well how well do you know her? If you don't know her very well she might think you are creepy for checking up on her and so forth.