A lot of people think I am weird. I want to solve this problem. For, example this one girl I like, she wasn't eating or drinking much so I got concerned. I went out of my way to help her, even drove to where she worked to see if she was okay. She found this weird according to this girl.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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weird..maybe you should seek help?
or maybe you should'nt be soo concerned about what people think about you.
Weirdo! lol
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Weird is cool if that's your thing..it's better then being called a psycho or a serial killer lol.Also,what makes you weird and why would they call you weird?
the things you do? how you act? weird is cool and interesting because in a world of normalcy and monautness routine..sometimes you have to act a little crazy to have some fun..just a little though,you don't wanna end up in jail or anything.
or maybe you should'nt be soo concerned about what people think about you.
Weirdo! lol
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Weird is cool if that's your thing..it's better then being called a psycho or a serial killer lol.Also,what makes you weird and why would they call you weird?
the things you do? how you act? weird is cool and interesting because in a world of normalcy and monautness routine..sometimes you have to act a little crazy to have some fun..just a little though,you don't wanna end up in jail or anything.
Alphamale1821
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Look at it this way. When i've been called weird i say "yeah i know i'm so weird it's cool". Another time went like this.
Cara: Chuk your so weird
me: yeah i know i love being weird
Cara: (flirty laugh) yeah your pretty good at it.
Now granted when i'm called weird it's in more of a out of norm sense but in a cool way. I'm considered weird in a sense that I'm an individual and i don't care if something i do is stupid or foreign to others because it's who i am. My weirdness is a part of my cool personality.
Work on turning your "weirdness" into a positive. My weirdness is cool because it conveys a sense of style and mystery. Unlike some "weirdness" which conveys creepy and unattractiveness.
Cara: Chuk your so weird
me: yeah i know i love being weird
Cara: (flirty laugh) yeah your pretty good at it.
Now granted when i'm called weird it's in more of a out of norm sense but in a cool way. I'm considered weird in a sense that I'm an individual and i don't care if something i do is stupid or foreign to others because it's who i am. My weirdness is a part of my cool personality.
Work on turning your "weirdness" into a positive. My weirdness is cool because it conveys a sense of style and mystery. Unlike some "weirdness" which conveys creepy and unattractiveness.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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weird or strangeness is a positive quirk some people were fortunant enough to have.Anna Faris of the scary movies series is HOT,Jenny Mcarthy is also a weirdo..but she is HOT,Amanda Bynes had her own show called the Amanda show and she was also weird,.but HOT.Look at all the cool stars too..Jack Black,Will Farrel,Jim Carrey..these are all of the wall guys but also highly successfull..they reconized their uniqueness and built upon it.
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I would'nt go as far as saying that he had MAJOR case of social awkwardness/AFCness. lolPhyzzle said:
he was worried about her,so he did something about it.At least he took action and did something.It beats the heck out of worrying about it,going online ,taking a poll of what other people would do then go off to do whatever they advised :kick:
true he may have jumped the gun but you live and learn :woo:
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Alkali said:
lol she WAS annoying as hell on that show,I don't remember what skit it was but she kept screaming and screaming at her pet parrot or something like that.She has filled out quite nicely now and alot less eccentric then before.She was HOT in that one movie She's the man
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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... And proud of it. Thank Baal I'm not normal (saying the word "normal" with a derisive tone).
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Well how well do you know her? If you don't know her very well she might think you are creepy for checking up on her and so forth.