"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AlexTheGreat

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OK, last year, I was good friend with this girl I had oneitis on, and with a lot of her girl friends. Now, this year, oneitis is gone, but I still don't hang out with them anymore. I mean, we say hi in the school halls and stuff, but usually nothing more. Now, it seems as if all her friends are pissed off at me :rolleyes:

How do I confirm my supposition, and any ideas on how to fix this situation ? I'll try and be more friendly with them again, and spend a little more time with them, but not to spend my whole lunch period with them like last year. Anything else ... ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The TallOne

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Why would you want to be friends with them?

Unless you have some desire to be in a relationship with any of them..

Don't even bother.
 
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MarcP

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Originally posted by The TallOne
Why would you want to be friends with them?

Unless you have some desire to be in a relationship with any of them..

Don't even bother.
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Why wouldn't he want to be friends with them: they'll give him social proof, oppertunity to meet new people(maybe some hot girls) and other things beside. I mean they're just like guy friends please don't tell me you only have guy friends that you consider relationship worthy:D j/k. If they're boring then just keep saying hi and maybe exchange half a minute conversations or something this way you don't have to listen to them boring you to death and you dont have less friends.
 
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Just start talking again. "hi, long time no see, how's it going...."
 
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