"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AlexTheGreat

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OK, last year, I was good friend with this girl I had oneitis on, and with a lot of her girl friends. Now, this year, oneitis is gone, but I still don't hang out with them anymore. I mean, we say hi in the school halls and stuff, but usually nothing more. Now, it seems as if all her friends are pissed off at me :rolleyes:

How do I confirm my supposition, and any ideas on how to fix this situation ? I'll try and be more friendly with them again, and spend a little more time with them, but not to spend my whole lunch period with them like last year. Anything else ... ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why would you want to be friends with them?

Unless you have some desire to be in a relationship with any of them..

Don't even bother.
 
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Originally posted by The TallOne
Why would you want to be friends with them?

Unless you have some desire to be in a relationship with any of them..

Don't even bother.
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Why wouldn't he want to be friends with them: they'll give him social proof, oppertunity to meet new people(maybe some hot girls) and other things beside. I mean they're just like guy friends please don't tell me you only have guy friends that you consider relationship worthy:D j/k. If they're boring then just keep saying hi and maybe exchange half a minute conversations or something this way you don't have to listen to them boring you to death and you dont have less friends.
 
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Just start talking again. "hi, long time no see, how's it going...."
 
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