Evening guys has anyone ever experienced this, the last year or so I have been improving my life in a lot of ways. I have been hitting the gym hard and I have got a new job a firefighter too be exact, I get random comments from people saying your in good shape girls must be chasing you etc, but reality is, this has been my worst year ever for getting any attention from girls this happened too anyone else? Andy
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Weird situation
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Gym/working out does not equal girls. (It helps, but not in a big way)
Frame = girls
The math is very simple.
Frame = girls
The math is very simple.
Maybe you feel more confident and self assured and this intimidates some girls. They may feel they don't stand a chance with you or that you are a player and can get any woman you want and they don't want to get hurt.
Are you really bulky? Because I know a lot of women don't find it attractive.
Are you really bulky? Because I know a lot of women don't find it attractive.
Good shout how can I improve this?
No I'm not really bulky just looking more athletic, arms and chest are more defined etc
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well then I should think that you are seen as being more attractive and so women may be responding to that in a feminine way and anticipating that you will be the assertive one and make the moves towards them. How are your hunting skills?
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Here's a hint:
"Mind over matter"
Matter being biceps, reps, etc.
Being a DJ has more to do, with what's between your ears.