Evening guys has anyone ever experienced this, the last year or so I have been improving my life in a lot of ways. I have been hitting the gym hard and I have got a new job a firefighter too be exact, I get random comments from people saying your in good shape girls must be chasing you etc, but reality is, this has been my worst year ever for getting any attention from girls this happened too anyone else? Andy
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Weird situation
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Gym/working out does not equal girls. (It helps, but not in a big way)
Frame = girls
The math is very simple.
Frame = girls
The math is very simple.
Maybe you feel more confident and self assured and this intimidates some girls. They may feel they don't stand a chance with you or that you are a player and can get any woman you want and they don't want to get hurt.
Are you really bulky? Because I know a lot of women don't find it attractive.
Are you really bulky? Because I know a lot of women don't find it attractive.
Good shout how can I improve this?
No I'm not really bulky just looking more athletic, arms and chest are more defined etc
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well then I should think that you are seen as being more attractive and so women may be responding to that in a feminine way and anticipating that you will be the assertive one and make the moves towards them. How are your hunting skills?
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Here's a hint:
"Mind over matter"
Matter being biceps, reps, etc.
Being a DJ has more to do, with what's between your ears.