Evening guys has anyone ever experienced this, the last year or so I have been improving my life in a lot of ways. I have been hitting the gym hard and I have got a new job a firefighter too be exact, I get random comments from people saying your in good shape girls must be chasing you etc, but reality is, this has been my worst year ever for getting any attention from girls this happened too anyone else? Andy
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Gym/working out does not equal girls. (It helps, but not in a big way)
Frame = girls
The math is very simple.
Frame = girls
The math is very simple.
Maybe you feel more confident and self assured and this intimidates some girls. They may feel they don't stand a chance with you or that you are a player and can get any woman you want and they don't want to get hurt.
Are you really bulky? Because I know a lot of women don't find it attractive.
Are you really bulky? Because I know a lot of women don't find it attractive.
Good shout how can I improve this?
No I'm not really bulky just looking more athletic, arms and chest are more defined etc
Well then I should think that you are seen as being more attractive and so women may be responding to that in a feminine way and anticipating that you will be the assertive one and make the moves towards them. How are your hunting skills?
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Here's a hint:
"Mind over matter"
Matter being biceps, reps, etc.
Being a DJ has more to do, with what's between your ears.