Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dr.LASR

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Ok, I know I'm a newbie, so please offer tips and what not :)

So my friend suggested we get high with some girls at lunch, I was like k.
We went to my house, and they left a bit early, and she stayed. However, I was to ***** to do anything. She said she's gonna come over after school, I said ok, and walked her back to school, she said text me, I said I don't have your number, what is it? And got it.

To the point. We went for a walk in the woods. One thing lead to another, and she was right upon against my chest because she was "cold" We eventually began to make out, and I made inclinations for her to "Go for the d" and she was making nu uh teasingly. Then, I made the move, and I ultimitely fingered her to orgasm. She had to go to skating, so I walked her to the bus stop and kissed her bye.

Now comes the part where I need help.

We were texting, and she eventually said she doesn't want a relationship right now.

That's basically all I got. Oh, and if this helps, I'm grade 9, she's grade 10.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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apocolipto

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She doesn't want sex. So, she's your fvck buddy.

Now go chase some girls :)
 

apocolipto

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Lol sorry, I smoked when posting that.

I meant that you engaged in sexual acts together, so in context she's basicly a Fvck buddy.

U understand now?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NorwegianDJ

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There's no problem here. She's just saying, "Please don't get attatched if we continue being sexual"
 

Dr.LASR

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NorwegianDJ said:
There's no problem here. She's just saying, "Please don't get attatched if we continue being sexual"
Thank you :up: Thats exactly what I needed.
 
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