"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dr.LASR

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Ok, I know I'm a newbie, so please offer tips and what not :)

So my friend suggested we get high with some girls at lunch, I was like k.
We went to my house, and they left a bit early, and she stayed. However, I was to ***** to do anything. She said she's gonna come over after school, I said ok, and walked her back to school, she said text me, I said I don't have your number, what is it? And got it.

To the point. We went for a walk in the woods. One thing lead to another, and she was right upon against my chest because she was "cold" We eventually began to make out, and I made inclinations for her to "Go for the d" and she was making nu uh teasingly. Then, I made the move, and I ultimitely fingered her to orgasm. She had to go to skating, so I walked her to the bus stop and kissed her bye.

Now comes the part where I need help.

We were texting, and she eventually said she doesn't want a relationship right now.

That's basically all I got. Oh, and if this helps, I'm grade 9, she's grade 10.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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apocolipto

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She doesn't want sex. So, she's your fvck buddy.

Now go chase some girls :)
 

apocolipto

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Lol sorry, I smoked when posting that.

I meant that you engaged in sexual acts together, so in context she's basicly a Fvck buddy.

U understand now?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NorwegianDJ

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There's no problem here. She's just saying, "Please don't get attatched if we continue being sexual"
 

Dr.LASR

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NorwegianDJ said:
There's no problem here. She's just saying, "Please don't get attatched if we continue being sexual"
Thank you :up: Thats exactly what I needed.
 
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