"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Weird Situation??

keemojung

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1. Yesterday morning, my girl sent me the g morning msg to me.

Later on the day, my girl (didn't bang her yet) called me 4-5 times

but i didn't pick up any calls. Finally, after the last call she made about

10-15 min, she then send me the msg "If you didn't wanna talk then tell me,

i won't call to bother you"

How would you deal with this situation?

The reason I didn't pick up her call coz i was not in the mood to talk with

her so i decided not to pick one so that i didn't say sth desperate and needy.

I think im gonna call her today afternoon.

Should i act like nothing has happened?


2. What if u guys have to go oversea for like 5-7 days, how would

u guys deal with your girls?

Would u tell them that u gonna be oversea or just go NC during that period?

Should we call her from oversea?

I didn't think so since calling from oversea is quite expensive.


Thank you for any valuable comments.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Domo_Arigatoo

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How the fvck is this a weird situation...?
I have a suggestion for you, stop worrying, everything you're asking about is trivial.
 

keemojung

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Domo_Arigatoo said:
How the fvck is this a weird situation...?
I have a suggestion for you, stop worrying, everything you're asking about is trivial.
You mean just act like nothing happen and call her whenever

I want to.

What if she ask abt it?
 
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