"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Weird Situation??

keemojung

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1. Yesterday morning, my girl sent me the g morning msg to me.

Later on the day, my girl (didn't bang her yet) called me 4-5 times

but i didn't pick up any calls. Finally, after the last call she made about

10-15 min, she then send me the msg "If you didn't wanna talk then tell me,

i won't call to bother you"

How would you deal with this situation?

The reason I didn't pick up her call coz i was not in the mood to talk with

her so i decided not to pick one so that i didn't say sth desperate and needy.

I think im gonna call her today afternoon.

Should i act like nothing has happened?


2. What if u guys have to go oversea for like 5-7 days, how would

u guys deal with your girls?

Would u tell them that u gonna be oversea or just go NC during that period?

Should we call her from oversea?

I didn't think so since calling from oversea is quite expensive.


Thank you for any valuable comments.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Domo_Arigatoo

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How the fvck is this a weird situation...?
I have a suggestion for you, stop worrying, everything you're asking about is trivial.
 

keemojung

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Domo_Arigatoo said:
How the fvck is this a weird situation...?
I have a suggestion for you, stop worrying, everything you're asking about is trivial.
You mean just act like nothing happen and call her whenever

I want to.

What if she ask abt it?
 
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