"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Weird Situation??

keemojung

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1. Yesterday morning, my girl sent me the g morning msg to me.

Later on the day, my girl (didn't bang her yet) called me 4-5 times

but i didn't pick up any calls. Finally, after the last call she made about

10-15 min, she then send me the msg "If you didn't wanna talk then tell me,

i won't call to bother you"

How would you deal with this situation?

The reason I didn't pick up her call coz i was not in the mood to talk with

her so i decided not to pick one so that i didn't say sth desperate and needy.

I think im gonna call her today afternoon.

Should i act like nothing has happened?


2. What if u guys have to go oversea for like 5-7 days, how would

u guys deal with your girls?

Would u tell them that u gonna be oversea or just go NC during that period?

Should we call her from oversea?

I didn't think so since calling from oversea is quite expensive.


Thank you for any valuable comments.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Domo_Arigatoo

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How the fvck is this a weird situation...?
I have a suggestion for you, stop worrying, everything you're asking about is trivial.
 

keemojung

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Domo_Arigatoo said:
How the fvck is this a weird situation...?
I have a suggestion for you, stop worrying, everything you're asking about is trivial.
You mean just act like nothing happen and call her whenever

I want to.

What if she ask abt it?
 
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