"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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So saturday I was supposed to go out with friends and my GF was tagged to come along, we still had not arranged a time as things were being settled, so she went on to do some errands in the afternoon and I told her that if she came home by the end of the afternoon we would take ot from there.

While she was away the friends meeting got arranged earlier than expected, so I tried to give her a call but was not able to go through, so decided to get ready and leave, figured that she would call me back when available and would tell her to join us.

It happened that when she called and told her that I had left without her she got super pissed, decided not to come, and accused me of being shady and not wanting to take her with me.

Thoughts?
 

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Sounds like you may be young enough to shoot text often...so why not just text her as well?
 
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Initiatedindenial said:
So saturday I was supposed to go out with friends and my GF was tagged to come along, we still had not arranged a time as things were being settled, so she went on to do some errands in the afternoon and I told her that if she came home by the end of the afternoon we would take ot from there.

While she was away the friends meeting got arranged earlier than expected, so I tried to give her a call but was not able to go through, so decided to get ready and leave, figured that she would call me back when available and would tell her to join us.

It happened that when she called and told her that I had left without her she got super pissed, decided not to come, and accused me of being shady and not wanting to take her with me.

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You tried to call her. She didn't pick up or call you back. Sounds like a spoiled brat that dad didn't say NO to enough when she was growing up.

You did nothing wrong. Insulting you by calling you shady gets her a one way ticket to dumpsville.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dude99 said:
You tried to call her. She didn't pick up or call you back. Sounds like a spoiled brat that dad didn't say NO to enough when she was growing up.

You did nothing wrong. Insulting you by calling you shady gets her a one way ticket to dumpsville.
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Well she didn't use yhat word she just said that felt that I didn't whether she was there or not.
 
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You did right. You didn't wait for her. You went to do your thing. There's nothing wrong with that. If she got your msg, she could have reached you.

In my dictionary, she is mad at you. Points for you.

I recently noticed the more they pissed at you, the more they into you, and it's definitely turning her on. You're a man, and you got your own path.
 
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She's mad. Its a misunderstanding, she'll get over it. Doesn't need to be analyzed. Women are humans, sometimes they get mad at shít just like you do.
 
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LARaiders85 said:
And sometimes they get mad for a reason completely different than what they are articulating. Can't oversimplify.
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Of course. But I'm talking about this specific situation. This one is simple. She got left out so she got mad, pretty straight forward. Just like we'd be if our buddies went out without us with plans. It'll blow over.

Guys gotta remember, its not the end of the world everytime things aren't going perfectly smooth. Sometimes there's going to be a little tension or a disagreement and thats good for a relationship.
 
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Initiatedindenial said:
So saturday I was supposed to go out with friends and my GF was tagged to come along, we still had not arranged a time as things were being settled, so she went on to do some errands in the afternoon and I told her that if she came home by the end of the afternoon we would take ot from there.

While she was away the friends meeting got arranged earlier than expected, so I tried to give her a call but was not able to go through, so decided to get ready and leave, figured that she would call me back when available and would tell her to join us.

It happened that when she called and told her that I had left without her she got super pissed, decided not to come, and accused me of being shady and not wanting to take her with me.

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She sounds like a twit. Why should you have to take her along with you? Do you tag along to all her meetings with friends. Even with the best will, what happened, happened, and was beyond your control. She was too late, tough. Its not the end of the world. Really she should have just been worried that you had a good time and that's it.
Are there trust issues?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She sounds like a twit. Why should you have to take her along with you? Do you tag along to all her meetings with friends. Even with the best will, what happened, happened, and was beyond your control. She was too late, tough. Its not the end of the world. Really she should have just been worried that you had a good time and that's it.
Are there trust issues?
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Not that I know off, have not given her reason since we 've upgraded to relationship.
 
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