Weird situation with my GF

[Initiatedindenial]

So saturday I was supposed to go out with friends and my GF was tagged to come along, we still had not arranged a time as things were being settled, so she went on to do some errands in the afternoon and I told her that if she came home by the end of the afternoon we would take ot from there.

While she was away the friends meeting got arranged earlier than expected, so I tried to give her a call but was not able to go through, so decided to get ready and leave, figured that she would call me back when available and would tell her to join us.

It happened that when she called and told her that I had left without her she got super pissed, decided not to come, and accused me of being shady and not wanting to take her with me.

Thoughts?

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Sounds like you may be young enough to shoot text often...so why not just text her as well?

 

[dude99]

So saturday I was supposed to go out with friends and my GF was tagged to come along, we still had not arranged a time as things were being settled, so she went on to do some errands in the afternoon and I told her that if she came home by the end of the afternoon we would take ot from there.

While she was away the friends meeting got arranged earlier than expected, so I tried to give her a call but was not able to go through, so decided to get ready and leave, figured that she would call me back when available and would tell her to join us.

It happened that when she called and told her that I had left without her she got super pissed, decided not to come, and accused me of being shady and not wanting to take her with me.

Thoughts?

You tried to call her. She didn't pick up or call you back. Sounds like a spoiled brat that dad didn't say NO to enough when she was growing up.

You did nothing wrong. Insulting you by calling you shady gets her a one way ticket to dumpsville.

 

[Initiatedindenial]

What do you mean by the call wasn't able to go through, like she didn't pick up?

No like went straight to the voice mail, she probably was in the underground.

 

[Initiatedindenial]

Sounds like you may be young enough to shoot text often...so why not just text her as well?

Yes that was her main reason to be upset, like she made it to my place and I was no longer there

 

[Initiatedindenial]

You tried to call her. She didn't pick up or call you back. Sounds like a spoiled brat that dad didn't say NO to enough when she was growing up.

You did nothing wrong. Insulting you by calling you shady gets her a one way ticket to dumpsville.

Well she didn't use yhat word she just said that felt that I didn't whether she was there or not.

 

[IraLeo]

You did right. You didn't wait for her. You went to do your thing. There's nothing wrong with that. If she got your msg, she could have reached you.

In my dictionary, she is mad at you. Points for you.

I recently noticed the more they pissed at you, the more they into you, and it's definitely turning her on. You're a man, and you got your own path.

 

[SmooveMooves]

She's mad. Its a misunderstanding, she'll get over it. Doesn't need to be analyzed. Women are humans, sometimes they get mad at shít just like you do.

 

[SmooveMooves]

And sometimes they get mad for a reason completely different than what they are articulating. Can't oversimplify.

Of course. But I'm talking about this specific situation. This one is simple. She got left out so she got mad, pretty straight forward. Just like we'd be if our buddies went out without us with plans. It'll blow over.

Guys gotta remember, its not the end of the world everytime things aren't going perfectly smooth. Sometimes there's going to be a little tension or a disagreement and thats good for a relationship.

 

[Plums]

So saturday I was supposed to go out with friends and my GF was tagged to come along, we still had not arranged a time as things were being settled, so she went on to do some errands in the afternoon and I told her that if she came home by the end of the afternoon we would take ot from there.

While she was away the friends meeting got arranged earlier than expected, so I tried to give her a call but was not able to go through, so decided to get ready and leave, figured that she would call me back when available and would tell her to join us.

It happened that when she called and told her that I had left without her she got super pissed, decided not to come, and accused me of being shady and not wanting to take her with me.

Thoughts?

She sounds like a twit. Why should you have to take her along with you? Do you tag along to all her meetings with friends. Even with the best will, what happened, happened, and was beyond your control. She was too late, tough. Its not the end of the world. Really she should have just been worried that you had a good time and that's it.
Are there trust issues?

 

[Initiatedindenial]

She sounds like a twit. Why should you have to take her along with you? Do you tag along to all her meetings with friends. Even with the best will, what happened, happened, and was beyond your control. She was too late, tough. Its not the end of the world. Really she should have just been worried that you had a good time and that's it.
Are there trust issues?

Not that I know off, have not given her reason since we 've upgraded to relationship.