"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Weird situation with girl at work, need advice, badly.

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I really like this chick from work, but she is straight from China, so I’m not too familiar with their culture. Well I told her in a conversation that I was getting a pass to 24hr fitness, she got one a few days later and asked me to go with her. Hey, she is interested, right? I also heard stories on how she talks about me a lot, all positive things. Well we went to the gym after work, for some reason I told her that I wasn’t interested in anyone at work (dumb mistake, not sure why I did that), she then changed her whole attitude. She automatically started talking about if I want to try dating her friends, she did not sound genuine about it. I think she was using this tactic, because I somehow subliminally told her I wasn’t interested in her, but I am.

I’ve used this tactic too, after getting rejected. Basically I did it because I wanted to pay it off, as if I was not interested in the first place. Catch my drift?

Anyway, I want to tell her how I feel and possibly date her. She is single. If I get rejected then I will look like a loser on trying to get with her friends. Plus we plan to go to the gym with each other 3 times a week, which will be really awkward. What should I do fellas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just email her at work and say "We definetly have alot in common we should hang out sometime".. Then when she says it's cool set up a date!

This worked for me recently.

EDIT nevermind, I replied before I finished your whole post i see you already went out.
 
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Always pursue a girl who you fancy, romantically! Don't beat around the bush!
 
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