"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Weird situation... includes lesbians

Flanker

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...or one lesbian at least.

First up, what's up fellas! I've been an occasional lurker for a couple of years now, usually only visiting to get a boost from the archives when life throws its curveballs. But the following situation has me baffled, and I don't really know how to proceed. Any advice from you guys would be sweet.

I made out with a lesbian a couple of nights ago. Hot-tub, beers, gin, and good friends. You know the deal. This all came about because of a long-running joke between mutual friends that myself and this chick should hook-up. I was never against the possibility, 'cause she's lipstick, and what man wouldn't accept the offer to give an attractive lesbian her first ****? But I never actively pursued the matter, because come on, seriously, she's a full-on lesbian, always has been, and besides, straight chicks don't take any work to throw down with. This will take some finessing, even if she's into it. I do like a challenge however.

Regardless, we got bit hot and bothered, whatever. Now, what's my line from here on out? All evidence says she was into it, and a sober invite to hang out again in a couple of weeks was extended (4 of us heading down to Portland for strippers, beers, etc). So here's the dilemma, do I go for it and do my duty as a man and try to keep my head on my shoulders when the inevitable fallout occurs, or do I just put the kibosh on it right now, call it a tipsy but innocent encounter, and politely body swerve further encounters while keeping the peace?

I'm not pining over this chick, I just think it's an absurd situation. My gut is saying "run like the wind", but the peenor is saying "just ****ing do it already"

What do you lot reckon?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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IPityThou

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Maybe she's not then....

Just FYI.... Some "Lipsticks" are just posers for the attention.... If ur not pining, but she's still a challenge/attraction, just do whatever comes natural (no pun intended).... U R the Man! Keep up the good work! :up:
 

Flanker

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This was supposed to be posted in the Mature forum, but I don't know how to read stickies real well... I thought that by entering my DOB when registering it would have put that info in my profile, it obviously didn't. My bad.

After some thought, I'm just going to go with the flow and see what happens.
 
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