Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Weird situation... includes lesbians

Flanker

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...or one lesbian at least.

First up, what's up fellas! I've been an occasional lurker for a couple of years now, usually only visiting to get a boost from the archives when life throws its curveballs. But the following situation has me baffled, and I don't really know how to proceed. Any advice from you guys would be sweet.

I made out with a lesbian a couple of nights ago. Hot-tub, beers, gin, and good friends. You know the deal. This all came about because of a long-running joke between mutual friends that myself and this chick should hook-up. I was never against the possibility, 'cause she's lipstick, and what man wouldn't accept the offer to give an attractive lesbian her first ****? But I never actively pursued the matter, because come on, seriously, she's a full-on lesbian, always has been, and besides, straight chicks don't take any work to throw down with. This will take some finessing, even if she's into it. I do like a challenge however.

Regardless, we got bit hot and bothered, whatever. Now, what's my line from here on out? All evidence says she was into it, and a sober invite to hang out again in a couple of weeks was extended (4 of us heading down to Portland for strippers, beers, etc). So here's the dilemma, do I go for it and do my duty as a man and try to keep my head on my shoulders when the inevitable fallout occurs, or do I just put the kibosh on it right now, call it a tipsy but innocent encounter, and politely body swerve further encounters while keeping the peace?

I'm not pining over this chick, I just think it's an absurd situation. My gut is saying "run like the wind", but the peenor is saying "just ****ing do it already"

What do you lot reckon?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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IPityThou

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Maybe she's not then....

Just FYI.... Some "Lipsticks" are just posers for the attention.... If ur not pining, but she's still a challenge/attraction, just do whatever comes natural (no pun intended).... U R the Man! Keep up the good work! :up:
 

Flanker

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This was supposed to be posted in the Mature forum, but I don't know how to read stickies real well... I thought that by entering my DOB when registering it would have put that info in my profile, it obviously didn't. My bad.

After some thought, I'm just going to go with the flow and see what happens.
 
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