"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Weird situation... includes lesbians

Flanker

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...or one lesbian at least.

First up, what's up fellas! I've been an occasional lurker for a couple of years now, usually only visiting to get a boost from the archives when life throws its curveballs. But the following situation has me baffled, and I don't really know how to proceed. Any advice from you guys would be sweet.

I made out with a lesbian a couple of nights ago. Hot-tub, beers, gin, and good friends. You know the deal. This all came about because of a long-running joke between mutual friends that myself and this chick should hook-up. I was never against the possibility, 'cause she's lipstick, and what man wouldn't accept the offer to give an attractive lesbian her first ****? But I never actively pursued the matter, because come on, seriously, she's a full-on lesbian, always has been, and besides, straight chicks don't take any work to throw down with. This will take some finessing, even if she's into it. I do like a challenge however.

Regardless, we got bit hot and bothered, whatever. Now, what's my line from here on out? All evidence says she was into it, and a sober invite to hang out again in a couple of weeks was extended (4 of us heading down to Portland for strippers, beers, etc). So here's the dilemma, do I go for it and do my duty as a man and try to keep my head on my shoulders when the inevitable fallout occurs, or do I just put the kibosh on it right now, call it a tipsy but innocent encounter, and politely body swerve further encounters while keeping the peace?

I'm not pining over this chick, I just think it's an absurd situation. My gut is saying "run like the wind", but the peenor is saying "just ****ing do it already"

What do you lot reckon?
 

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IPityThou

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Maybe she's not then....

Just FYI.... Some "Lipsticks" are just posers for the attention.... If ur not pining, but she's still a challenge/attraction, just do whatever comes natural (no pun intended).... U R the Man! Keep up the good work! :up:
 

Flanker

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This was supposed to be posted in the Mature forum, but I don't know how to read stickies real well... I thought that by entering my DOB when registering it would have put that info in my profile, it obviously didn't. My bad.

After some thought, I'm just going to go with the flow and see what happens.
 
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