"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Weird Situation: I next low-interest girl and then...

Masculinity

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Hb7 And I were in the same dorm during my first quarter at a major uni. I ran game on her & she seemed receptive(went direct on her), but each time I asked her out she was "busy" with something. We were in a very, very rigorous preparation program, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt the 1st time and nexted her the second time.

I was involved in a talent show and performed a song (singer) that increased my social value. About 5 girls approached me to compliment me that night, which is unusual for me. Anyway, HB7 might or might not been in the audience. About a month later (after the academic program had ended) HB7 & I ran into each other at a karaoke bar. She was demonstrating interest: asking questions, body pointed my way, smiling, flirting, etc. but I had other plans that night.

About 3 months go by without contact and now this chick happens to be in my sociology course. She lit up after seeing me and texted me "come sit here," to the side of the class where she was. I didn't see the message until after class and still continue to sit in the front of class, rather than the right side here she sits. Long story short, she now talks to be during our 10-minute class break, smiles a lot, and seems interested. She asked me "do you want to come to the copy room (public) with me to print some readings? I declined because I have homework, but I'm still confused.

This hasn't happened to me before. I am very active in class discussions and people tell me I'm intelligent. I wouldn't mind banging her, but I want to make sure she isn't just using me for class or being an AW. Why do you all think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This hasn't happened to me before. I am very active in class discussions and people tell me I'm intelligent. I wouldn't mind banging her, but I want to make sure she isn't just using me for class or being an AW. Why do you all think?

What up bro.

First off, you need to mentally erase what happened with her before since it wasn't much of anything.

I think your partially influenced by the overall Sosuave mantra to NEXT NEXT NEXT so quickly. I'll say this again, depending on the situation if you give up on a chick who doesn't agree to go out with you right away, your MISSING OUT on so much @ss! Remember, girls are gaming just as much as you are esp in your age bracket.

So lets be honest here, she likely had another guy or two ahead of you when you were trying to game her a few months back, thereby putting you on the back burner.

Now it seems like she's more available and you have absolutely nothing to lose and a lot to gain by simply picking up where you left off.

I think this girl was always attracted to you, it just like I mentioned other guys and or things were ahead of you at the time, thereby making you not that important to her.

She's showing interest now and you've done well by deflecting her invites and acting kinda "mehh" about her. This is only peaking her interest more and your seeing her try harder and harder to gain your attention.

Remember, always strike when the iron is hot and right now its prime for the taking.

Here's what I would do: since she's in your class I would start flirting with her, then completely ignore her for a next class or two, then flirt with her again. It will drive her crazy and when you ask her to study or go do something she will likely be chomping at the bit to accept.

Bottom line, what happened before should be erased from your mind, its not like you went super AFC on her anyways. She's attracted and you can easily bang her if you take your ego out of the equation and go get what you want.


Keep us posted.







PIMP
 

NoShameInMyGame

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This sounds pretty easy, I don't know why she would use you for class or what the hell an "AW" is. Bang this chick, what is so complicated here? She is in your dorm for god sakes.
 

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messaging?

Hey i'm trying to message pimpsicle.... system wont let me. any ideas?
 

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Update:

She has been asking me to hangout with her during our class break (10 mins) and after class she walks with me to the other side of school (we ride my bike). She doesn't resist kino and actually asked me if I wanted to lie down on the grass with her. I accepted and we spent about 20 minutes talking. She also updated her FB status to "when you see me, you know I'm riding dirty...with Robyn" :D

The issue is when I ask her out, she says "we'll see." I asked her why she was so shy and she replied:

hb: I'm seeing someone.
me: so? Are you bf and gf?
hb: No
me: then it doesn't matter

We went to a computer lab after that and each did our own thing. She left 10 minutes after and grabbed my arm before saying bye (in a warm tone) as she left with her female friend. I hate to say it, but I kind of anticipated this happening (her being an AW). This is my first time in a situation like this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr. Bond

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Sounds pretty AW-ish to me. Judge her by her actions, not her words.

Good luck.
 
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