"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Weird Situation: I next low-interest girl and then...

Masculinity

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Hb7 And I were in the same dorm during my first quarter at a major uni. I ran game on her & she seemed receptive(went direct on her), but each time I asked her out she was "busy" with something. We were in a very, very rigorous preparation program, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt the 1st time and nexted her the second time.

I was involved in a talent show and performed a song (singer) that increased my social value. About 5 girls approached me to compliment me that night, which is unusual for me. Anyway, HB7 might or might not been in the audience. About a month later (after the academic program had ended) HB7 & I ran into each other at a karaoke bar. She was demonstrating interest: asking questions, body pointed my way, smiling, flirting, etc. but I had other plans that night.

About 3 months go by without contact and now this chick happens to be in my sociology course. She lit up after seeing me and texted me "come sit here," to the side of the class where she was. I didn't see the message until after class and still continue to sit in the front of class, rather than the right side here she sits. Long story short, she now talks to be during our 10-minute class break, smiles a lot, and seems interested. She asked me "do you want to come to the copy room (public) with me to print some readings? I declined because I have homework, but I'm still confused.

This hasn't happened to me before. I am very active in class discussions and people tell me I'm intelligent. I wouldn't mind banging her, but I want to make sure she isn't just using me for class or being an AW. Why do you all think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This hasn't happened to me before. I am very active in class discussions and people tell me I'm intelligent. I wouldn't mind banging her, but I want to make sure she isn't just using me for class or being an AW. Why do you all think?

What up bro.

First off, you need to mentally erase what happened with her before since it wasn't much of anything.

I think your partially influenced by the overall Sosuave mantra to NEXT NEXT NEXT so quickly. I'll say this again, depending on the situation if you give up on a chick who doesn't agree to go out with you right away, your MISSING OUT on so much @ss! Remember, girls are gaming just as much as you are esp in your age bracket.

So lets be honest here, she likely had another guy or two ahead of you when you were trying to game her a few months back, thereby putting you on the back burner.

Now it seems like she's more available and you have absolutely nothing to lose and a lot to gain by simply picking up where you left off.

I think this girl was always attracted to you, it just like I mentioned other guys and or things were ahead of you at the time, thereby making you not that important to her.

She's showing interest now and you've done well by deflecting her invites and acting kinda "mehh" about her. This is only peaking her interest more and your seeing her try harder and harder to gain your attention.

Remember, always strike when the iron is hot and right now its prime for the taking.

Here's what I would do: since she's in your class I would start flirting with her, then completely ignore her for a next class or two, then flirt with her again. It will drive her crazy and when you ask her to study or go do something she will likely be chomping at the bit to accept.

Bottom line, what happened before should be erased from your mind, its not like you went super AFC on her anyways. She's attracted and you can easily bang her if you take your ego out of the equation and go get what you want.


Keep us posted.







PIMP
 

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This sounds pretty easy, I don't know why she would use you for class or what the hell an "AW" is. Bang this chick, what is so complicated here? She is in your dorm for god sakes.
 

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messaging?

Hey i'm trying to message pimpsicle.... system wont let me. any ideas?
 

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Update:

She has been asking me to hangout with her during our class break (10 mins) and after class she walks with me to the other side of school (we ride my bike). She doesn't resist kino and actually asked me if I wanted to lie down on the grass with her. I accepted and we spent about 20 minutes talking. She also updated her FB status to "when you see me, you know I'm riding dirty...with Robyn" :D

The issue is when I ask her out, she says "we'll see." I asked her why she was so shy and she replied:

hb: I'm seeing someone.
me: so? Are you bf and gf?
hb: No
me: then it doesn't matter

We went to a computer lab after that and each did our own thing. She left 10 minutes after and grabbed my arm before saying bye (in a warm tone) as she left with her female friend. I hate to say it, but I kind of anticipated this happening (her being an AW). This is my first time in a situation like this.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr. Bond

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Sounds pretty AW-ish to me. Judge her by her actions, not her words.

Good luck.
 
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