"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Weird situation.. Got a date with a girl who recently had a cast in her arm

Ckowalsky

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Guys, same newbie Ckowalsky here. Need your advice. This girl and I have recently been secretly flirting hardcore for a month now, and we have set up a date this coming weekend.
Turns out that she recently got a minor injury and has her arm cast. She did not seem disinterested. When I asked her to contact me if she is free the coming weekend, she went ahead and said yes she is free friday. And she still keeps flirting with me. We both have massive rapid sexual escalation through messaging and text.
She is an acquaintance and every communication is discreet and non-physical due to environment issues.
If you guys were in my shoes, how would you follow through with this, especially that a date is set already.

P.S. Its unspoken but we both agree no strings attached. She just had an engagement sort of broke off recently as well. Thoughts? Criticisms?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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