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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

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Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Weird situation.. Got a date with a girl who recently had a cast in her arm

Ckowalsky

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Guys, same newbie Ckowalsky here. Need your advice. This girl and I have recently been secretly flirting hardcore for a month now, and we have set up a date this coming weekend.
Turns out that she recently got a minor injury and has her arm cast. She did not seem disinterested. When I asked her to contact me if she is free the coming weekend, she went ahead and said yes she is free friday. And she still keeps flirting with me. We both have massive rapid sexual escalation through messaging and text.
She is an acquaintance and every communication is discreet and non-physical due to environment issues.
If you guys were in my shoes, how would you follow through with this, especially that a date is set already.

P.S. Its unspoken but we both agree no strings attached. She just had an engagement sort of broke off recently as well. Thoughts? Criticisms?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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