"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Weird situation.. Got a date with a girl who recently had a cast in her arm

Ckowalsky

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Guys, same newbie Ckowalsky here. Need your advice. This girl and I have recently been secretly flirting hardcore for a month now, and we have set up a date this coming weekend.
Turns out that she recently got a minor injury and has her arm cast. She did not seem disinterested. When I asked her to contact me if she is free the coming weekend, she went ahead and said yes she is free friday. And she still keeps flirting with me. We both have massive rapid sexual escalation through messaging and text.
She is an acquaintance and every communication is discreet and non-physical due to environment issues.
If you guys were in my shoes, how would you follow through with this, especially that a date is set already.

P.S. Its unspoken but we both agree no strings attached. She just had an engagement sort of broke off recently as well. Thoughts? Criticisms?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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