"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Weird sex tonight with my ltr
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Bang 10 other chicks.Dayr0n said:
Fluke
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I'd be like, "Look I know something is going on you need to talk to me about it before I get the wrong idea". Doesn't mean she would admit to it if she did **** some other guy but it could be something completely harmless as far as it relates to you two. Just make her understand that it is important that she communicate with you and telling you nothing is wrong is insulting your intelligence. I'd rather the girl just say she didn't wanna talk about it.
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You can do what fluke said but based on my experiences it is best to do the "stealth approach" - send a programmed drone into her path and do some reconnaissance!!!! If you ever saw the cartoon with "Tweety bird" and the cat (old school) - you have to be like the cat that is sliding on the floor with his flattened body roaming about not making a noise to capture tweety bird in a moment of surprise!!!Dayr0n said:
Once you have more info then you start asking the questions when you know the answers - like a good lawyer does!!
If she knows you go to the clubs on a certain night then that would be the night to do some reconnaissance!!
It sounds sneaky but.... when a girl starts thinking and not saying anything then something is wrong!!!
Titty man, I don't think he's the player type!!
Oh check this out another thing is rounding my head she ironed her hair tonight before I picked her up.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Fluke
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If I actually think the girl is cheating on me or there is something else i want to know im not gonna be asking questions to give them hints until I'm confident enough that I can basically act like I know 100% and they usually cave in with whatever it is because I make sure to trap them. My memory is so damn good that months later I can remember tiny little details if the girl is ever talking about it again that sets off alarms if there are any changes.
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Hahahaha, this is getting too funny - you are not insecure just a little paranoid!Dayr0n said:
Hmmmmm, it is like a man who never wears cologne then starts putting cologne on and now the girl knows her man is seeing someone else!
You might want to ask Water Tiger this one - I never ironed my hair before.
Maybe the ironing is symbolism for ironing out some troubling issues!
NewMan
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Your not a mind reader, so stop acting like one.
Do what you do best - and thats be yourself.
Now, before you jump to all kinds of conclusion's, check for patterns. You bang every day, maybe it's just business as usual, maybe she's fvcking someone else, maybe she's stressed, maybe she thinks you are - and on and on and on.... what good does this do you?
she's not into sex tonight - she's thinking of something else - what's the first thing you do? - finish off, get your nut - then towel off and talk to her.
What I suspect is, that your getting into the next phase of a relationship. Things slow down sex becomes routine to some degree.... So Take a break from her - get some space and cool things down for a week or two and see what happens.
Also, at 22 - you should be readying another plate to being in as a replacement.
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If she's thinking about other stuff during sex, the sex is boring. Dayr0n, start doing some different stuff in the sack. Change positions, be aggressive, be gentle, use toys, eat her out, Variety! Variety! Variety! If you need a bit of help, go read Sir_Chancealot's Advanced Sexual Techniques in the tips section.
A woman needs the excitement of not knowing what to expect when the two of you go into the bedroom. Sometimes only you will get off, sometimes only she will get off, sometimes you both will get off, sometimes only oral, sometimes no sex at all - just cuddling. Doing the same thing in the bedroom all the time is like eating pizza every day. It gets boring.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Girls usually project their own flaws onto you and compensate for their own guilt.Last Man Standing said:
1) She suspects YOU of cheating...because SHE is cheating.
2) She is being extra-nice to you cuz she feels guilty that she cheated.
You really think she's thinking about her rents' possible divorce when you're boning? More like thinking of that OTHER GUY. If her attention has shifted away...it's generally to another GUY.
I'd be on the lookout for another GUY, cuz I see several red flags here for that.
Hmm, underage eh?Dayr0n said:
Apart from that, these appear to be signs of an approaching break-up. Not only did she mention being uncomfortable, but afterwards she was lovey-dovey and saying how much you mean to her, etc.. Women go through violent oscillations with their feelings when pondering if they want to be with you, and it never ends well.
On top of that, your gut is telling you something. Everytime in a relationship I got nervous and suspected that something was going on, guess what? Something was going on.
Of course I could be wrong. Regardless, be prepared for this as an outcome.
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^^ he has a really good point man, i've been with a few girls that cheat on their bfs and that's how they act. the BEST thing you can do is start distancing yourself. don't TELL her that you're going to distance yourself, just do it with no reason. she'll start to miss you. you gotta really discipline and not give in to the urge to talk to herwayword said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.