Weird sex tonight with my ltr

[Sato21m]

Ok It was weird there was a point that I noticed there was something wrong and I asked her in the middle of the sex Im like what’s going on she said nothing and kept on I would look at her eyes and she wouldn’t look at mines I know I made her feel uncomfortable.
We kept on and then i had to stop her I told her what is this this is awkward what happen to you she reply nothing I asked her why wouldn’t you look at me, like if I made you feel uncomfortable she said I don’t know , I don’t know what are you talking about.
I told her there was no passion, no love no hornines no nothing she admitted yeah there was no passion.

This comes from a year ltr and I cant complain this chick always been more than there for me. We have sex everyday I mean everyday My **** is in pain most of the time because of that. I always make her come at least twice most of the times 3 and 4 times.
Today during lunch she went to my job and waited for me there like a surprise and she wrote a letter saying how much she loves me and she wakes up every morning with a smile in her face because of me so should I be worry.....

 

[da_hunter]

sounds like typical pms bullshyt

 

[Sato21m]

She is not in her period but there is one thing last couple of months she founded out her parents are going to divorce. But I don’t think is that because it hasn’t affected the sex the previous time. Part of the letter was also saying thanking for been there for me your more than a bf your also a friend blah blah

 

[Last Man Standing]

She is reflecting - not good! I have a hunch she may be pregnant!!

Maybe just maybe she sent that message to you to reassure you - you caught her in a moment of honesty during the sex act and maybe just maybe she is seeing another dude and her mind/heart is not with you anymore and to avoid any suspicions on your part she reassures you of her love for you with a note!!

Give no mind to "I love you" words or notes - this is used to throw off your scent!!!!!

I have a suspicious mind because there are many hor games being played nowadays = protect your heart and never give it to a woman except for the one you marry!!!

 

[PleasureKing]

arouse her more. dont do the usual routine. and never confront something awkward in a awkward manner.


update:
i just read LMS's post. he may be right but ive also found out that having too much suspicion isnt healthy for a relationship, especially a LTR. so keep this in mind, but dont let it eat you up.

 

[Sato21m]

Bro if this girl is cheating on me I swear to you I wont trust any woman ever ever in my life because the things these girl has done for me is crazy, but that’s life.

After that happend I told her I was tired and I wanted to go to sleep and I took her home she didnt talk at all then she called me to see if I got home and she said to have fun in the club or what ever I was planning on doin tonight wtf . Today is Thursday and this club opens today she founded out I went a couple of times at the beginning of the relationship and that I used to do it with my ex but w/e

 

[( . )( . )]

Expect a "But" in the next letter.

If this is all strange to you after a year? Got a tenner that says I'm 90% odds on favourite, other 10% accounts for pregnancy and or general chick weirdom.

Your 22, shouldnt even be using and thinking of terms like "LTR".

Any plates?

 

[Sato21m]

wow you really think like that

 

[Sato21m]

Is not about the letter the letter said she is been thinking about me all day in class w/e I have like 40 letters from her is not about the letter. Bro this girl is always on top of me 24/7 she always want me to get out early from my job to be with me I cant really picture that in my mind.

 

[PleasureKing]

After that happend I told her I was tired and I wanted to go to sleep and I took her home she didnt talk at all then she called me to see if I got home and she said to have fun in the club or what ever I was planning on doin tonight wtf . Today is Thursday and this club opens today she founded out I went a couple of times at the beginning of the relationship and that I used to do it with my ex but w/e

its like shes your wife or something. give it a day, then think of doing something that will cheer her up. are you sure she isnt expecting you of cheating or something? anything at all on your behalf?

 

[Sato21m]

its like shes your wife or something. give it a day, then think of doing something that will cheer her up. are you sure she isnt expecting you of cheating or something? anything at all on your behalf?

Why should I cheer her up....

 

[( . )( . )]

Bro this girl is always on top of me 24/7

Who else is on top of you? Tell me you got poles and plates happening.

Your the King, the world is your urinal. Captain Picard says "Make it so!!"

Chicks are to be enjoyed not capitulated with, when one gives you gravy you eat a sandwich and say such is life I need some new cologne.

 

[Sato21m]

LOl What I meant was that she always want to be next to me

 

[WaterTiger]

My guess is that she's freaked out about her parents divorcing and is over analysing like we girls do. She's questioning everything about every relationship, even yours. Do you know the details of the divorce? Was there cheating involved?

If she's listening to her Mom rant on about how all men are pigs and only want women for is sex, never love them, then she's going to be thinking the same thing.

Dad is probably going on about how women are lying b!tches and are worthless. She hears this too. It can screw up a girl's mind.

::Just reread what some of the other guys have said...Who is responsible for birth control? You or her? I'll put a fiver on preggers.

The thought of a screaming baby for the next 18 years can put a serious damper on sexual fun.

 

[Last Man Standing]

....she called me to see if I got home and she said to have fun in the club or what ever I was planning on doin tonight wtf . Today is Thursday and this club opens today she founded out I went a couple of times at the beginning of the relationship and that I used to do it with my ex but w/e

This comment is not good!!

I think she suspects that YOU are "cheating" by visiting your old ex g/f hangout!! Hmmmmmm, either she is seeing another dude and feels no passion for you or suspects you are screwing another girl and then dipping your dipstick in her afterward you sex another girl!!

This is all speculation, of course!

Whatever it is --- a woman thinking during sex is not normal!!! Something is twirling in her head!!

"oh goodness I wonder if he has a hint that I'm pregnant with his "love" child or maybe someone else's -yikes!!"

Haha - just scaring you kid!!

 

[Sato21m]

Her mom is leaving her dad because she doesn’t like him as a man anymore

 

[Sato21m]

This comment is not good!!

I think she suspects that YOU are "cheating" by visiting your old ex g/f hangout!! Hmmmmmm, either she is seeing another dude and feels no passion for you or suspects you are screwing another girl and then dipping your dipstick in her afterward you sex another girl!!

This is all speculation, of course!

Whatever it is --- a woman thinking during sex is not normal!!! Something is twirling in her head!!

Yeah that’s what I thought that’s not normal wtf
The no passion is only tonight she always wants to have sex with me like she looks for the time , places, she looks forward for the sex.

 

[WaterTiger]

Her mom is leaving her dad because she doesn’t like him as a man anymore

So! It's not hard to realize she's thinking the same thing about you! Will DayrOn stay with me? Will I fall out of love with him?

LMS is right however, during sex she shouldn't be thinking about anything except what an amazing lover you are!:yes:

 

[Last Man Standing]

You didn't read the last sentence of my previous post - I edited it!

 

[Sato21m]

whats the best way to find out whats really going on