"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Weird reaction from a girl

styleman

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 3, 2005
Messages
368
Reaction score
1
Well normally things go pretty well with me and women in the initial stages with women, its the latter stages where I normally run into problems, but the reaction of this one girl has really made me confused.
Put simply, a friend of mine took her on a few dates, as far as what my friend said they banged each other a few times, but nothing came of it. My friend often has 20+ girls on the go at any one time, so its understandable.
So with the all clear from him I get talking to her, initially she shows high interest, so I invite her for lunch, she responds that she's seeing someone so she cannot.
Now I know that normally indicates low interest, but this is a first for me, I've taken girls with boyfriends 'for lunch' many times, and often slept with them as well.
So that's why this girl's reaction strikes me as odd. On top of that, at first she seemed very interested and flirty.
I really did not say anything to her that could have possible put her off either. The last thing she said to me was along the lines of, I like to get it hard and deep from time to time, and I'm sure you could aid me, my response to that was an invite to lunch.... What an oddball....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

connor32

Don Juan
Joined
May 25, 2008
Messages
122
Reaction score
2
she tells you she wants it hard and deep your response should be why dont you come over tonight to watch a movie. she prolly got it hard and deep from someone else.
 

DJDamage

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2004
Messages
5,657
Reaction score
104
Location
Canada
Wierd reaction for a girl? it was mirrored by the wierd reaction by you.

If a girl says to you that she would like to get it hard and deep from time to time, and she is sure you could aid her, YOU DON'T INVITE HER TO EAT AT LUNCH! She wasn't hungry for a Caesar Salad, she was thinking more along the lines of a tossed salad!

You had to play it a bit more smoothly:

Her: "I like to get it hard and deep from time to time, and I'm sure you could aid me"

You: " hmmm talk is cheap <coy smile> why don't you meet me over at my place for a drink and we will discuss this farther".

However when a girl lays it out thick like that, sometimes it means she is just playing with you. By giving her the option of meeting you at your place for obvious sex, then its pretty much game over and you will realise that rather quickly whether she was serious or just bullsh1tting you.
 

Prodigy746

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2007
Messages
696
Reaction score
14
Yah your response was not good at all. You should have said something like
" ahahh I charge 40/hr i am not sure you can afford me"
 
Top