Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Weird reaction from a girl

styleman

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Well normally things go pretty well with me and women in the initial stages with women, its the latter stages where I normally run into problems, but the reaction of this one girl has really made me confused.
Put simply, a friend of mine took her on a few dates, as far as what my friend said they banged each other a few times, but nothing came of it. My friend often has 20+ girls on the go at any one time, so its understandable.
So with the all clear from him I get talking to her, initially she shows high interest, so I invite her for lunch, she responds that she's seeing someone so she cannot.
Now I know that normally indicates low interest, but this is a first for me, I've taken girls with boyfriends 'for lunch' many times, and often slept with them as well.
So that's why this girl's reaction strikes me as odd. On top of that, at first she seemed very interested and flirty.
I really did not say anything to her that could have possible put her off either. The last thing she said to me was along the lines of, I like to get it hard and deep from time to time, and I'm sure you could aid me, my response to that was an invite to lunch.... What an oddball....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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connor32

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she tells you she wants it hard and deep your response should be why dont you come over tonight to watch a movie. she prolly got it hard and deep from someone else.
 

DJDamage

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Wierd reaction for a girl? it was mirrored by the wierd reaction by you.

If a girl says to you that she would like to get it hard and deep from time to time, and she is sure you could aid her, YOU DON'T INVITE HER TO EAT AT LUNCH! She wasn't hungry for a Caesar Salad, she was thinking more along the lines of a tossed salad!

You had to play it a bit more smoothly:

Her: "I like to get it hard and deep from time to time, and I'm sure you could aid me"

You: " hmmm talk is cheap <coy smile> why don't you meet me over at my place for a drink and we will discuss this farther".

However when a girl lays it out thick like that, sometimes it means she is just playing with you. By giving her the option of meeting you at your place for obvious sex, then its pretty much game over and you will realise that rather quickly whether she was serious or just bullsh1tting you.
 

Prodigy746

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Yah your response was not good at all. You should have said something like
" ahahh I charge 40/hr i am not sure you can afford me"
 
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