"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Weird question but whats a attractive/ alpha guy name ?

Rake101

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Weird question but what do you think is a attractive/ alpha male name ?
Some guys get named ****ty names i feel , what do you feel is a good attractive name ?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude, I don't even think about other guys or their names.
 

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Yep, a name is only an individual identifier, but change the name on a bottle of beer, it still tastes the same…
 

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Your name could be Bartholomew and you could be one bada$$ mothafu###

Suddenly it becomes a popular name.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The year is 2345. Bartholomew the Great has spoke to his people the wise words, and his people was grateful for hi.. nah this will never happen.
Bartholomew is a sucker name, if you have it better change it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My name can be both female and male
People threaten you through life as you're mommy's pitty boy, at school they call you a girl and it took some time for me to see it from other people perspective, and I do believe that name has influence toward personality development, especially if you coming from a single parent house and people make you feel that you should worship everything about your parent and you 7yrs old. My name is not that bad and I kinda start to like it after the drama and tragedy of stigma goes away, and also because btchs seems to actually like it which is the main reason. But I can feel the anger and did punched the bag myself

I also have a second original name, which is Male and western oriented, but not suits that well to the culture I live in, so different people call me different names, and it sounds different and feels different and the attitude feels different as well, not that I recommend to change the name, just saying that in an early phase it may have influence
 
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Fallon
 

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Chad...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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