"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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weird prob with online/reallife

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Junaid

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ok so basicly i met this girl
and i just talk to her a bit in school every now and then
and then i findher face book randomly and start talking to her online

ok so then i get sick and im basicly at home for 4 days doing nothing but aim.
and in those 4 aims i talked to her a massive amount. awsume convos and even some deep stuff with the past or w/e

and so i asked her to ice skating and of course she said sure.

and at ice skating it was REALLY awkward, mutually.
cause basicly the good online convos kinda set a standerd for the date and it made us both a lil weird. and the date sorta sucked. not AMAZINGLY bad but.. bad lol..

anyway so after that (happened about 3 days ago) lately even our convos online are lame..

how do i end the weirdness?

im thinking gotta catch up reallife stuff to online stuff.. maybe a kiss?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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things like this usually happens. take action now! nows the time. talk to her on aim, but dont overdo it. some time, when you feel is right, tell her she should go out for some ice cream with you (sounds kinda lame, i usually recommend fun dates, not the usual typical stuff), but anyways, be relaxed, make her laugh and giggle. keep eye contact and keep it sexual! ;] have fun
 
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I was in a simmilar situation a cpl weeks ago, I know this girl who i only see every 6 months or so because we live rather far apart and are both often busy. We talk online nearly every day and txt eachother constantly with great convos, well eventually we managed to arrange for her to come over for dinner one night but when she came it was really awkward and she was very tense/nervous. You basically just have to ignore it and act exactly the same as you do online and keep at it untill the weirdness breaks.

The way I did it that day was when we were sittin on my bed, watching a movie I got up and went to the bathroom. When I came back in i just closed the door and stood there leaning against the wall staring deep into her eyes. Eventually she asked what I was doing and I simply replied "Just trying to think of the best way to get you to relax and lie down so I can kiss you" at which point she laughed and I just went for it and kissed her mid laugh. She was surprised at first but then got into it and the awkwardness was gone.
 
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