"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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weird OLD situation...

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Just got a message from a really pretty 23 year old basically telling me she has a boyfriend but wants to explore her sexuality and thinks I am really good looking and wants me to teach her things in the bedroom(I take it her boyfriend sucks in this regard). She says he is OK with it as long as whoever she picks is disease free...

LMAO, this dude has no idea what's going to happen...if I go through with this, she won't even be thinking about him after getting her world rocked like that...hahaha...

This dude must be a total beta pansy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Update:

Ok, this is some freak sh!t...

She said he doesn't have to watch, but wants to be at the house while it's going on for her safety since they don't know me and they would like to film it so they can watch it later and said I can film it as well and I can wear something on my face if I don't want to be seen...

Also said anything is fair game other than me cvmming in her pvssy or @ss...she is good with anal, cvmming in her mouth, rough sh!t, etc...

Things that make you go hmmmm....
 

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Update:

Ok, this is some freak sh!t...

She said he doesn't have to watch, but wants to be at the house while it's going on for her safety since they don't know me and they would like to film it so they can watch it later and said I can film it as well and I can wear something on my face if I don't want to be seen...

Also said anything is fair game other than me cvmming in her pvssy or @ss...she is good with anal, cvmming in her mouth, rough sh!t, etc...

Things that make you go hmmmm....
Yep...I would kick her a as out the door. This sickens me just thinking about it.
 

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Yep...I would kick her a as out the door. This sickens me just thinking about it.
I don't really see what the problem is, her husband is in on it and apparently would be down to watch lol

If she's hot and you can get past the awkwardness, why not? Just have the husband be in a different room, and preferably have a friend drop you off in case it's some type of scam/trap so they don't try anything.. "My mate will come by later and pick me up after we're done"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't really see what the problem is, her husband is in on it and apparently would be down to watch lol

If she's hot and you can get past the awkwardness, why not? Just have the husband be in a different room, and preferably have a friend drop you off in case it's some type of scam/trap so they don't try anything.. "My mate will come by later and pick me up after we're done"
I meant if my woman suggested this to me. If some other pu ssy guy is ok with their woman doing this I don't care. As far as the act itself I wouldn't do it. If others are willing I don't care. Knock the bottom out of it.
 

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Sounds like you are being set up to get robbed.
Yeah pretty much...

I'd watch one thing....be carefull when your mind starts to put down another man....even if he's being "beta" or whatever.....I say respect your fellow man and you'll keep your own two feet on the ground. especially when she's railing against him.....when you start joining her your heading down into an ego entrapment. Check yourself, G
 

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The thought crossed my mind, but I'm sure there would be easier targets than a 200 lb jacked dude.

I'll feel it out a little more and make sure they understand that multiple people will know the address I'll be at if I do it...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The thought crossed my mind, but I'm sure there would be easier targets than a 200 lb jacked dude.

I'll feel it out a little more and make sure they understand that multiple people will know the address I'll be at if I do it...
Niave mentality. You think anyone gives a **** if you're a 200 ib jacked dude? the fact that you said that man....when I was a kid growing up your exactly the typle of kid we would have wanted to fight....we grew up drinking smoking and fighting....a jacked dude? a challenge an ego...I'll take him down

check yourself G, your ego is out of synce
 

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A baseball bat from behind will take down a 200lb jacked dude..criminals will do what it takes
 

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And she chose you.... what makes you so special. I say that to say she's probably running the same game on other guys on OLD. My concern would be her being a skanky freak weirdo that did the same thing to another guy the night before.
 

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Don't do it.

As noted above, the worst-case scenario is its a set up to get you attacked.

The realistic "best" case scenario is he's a closet fruitcake (or pervert) who wants to watch (or at least listen) and whack off.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lmao this is freaking funny. OP you have to update us on what you do. Wouldn't it be better to organise a hotel room on your terms, or something similar? That way you set it up and have control.
You've got to have control and some strategy. Turning up at their place is the red flag here.
And I agree about comments on your ego - you may want to adjust your thinking a bit. Confidence, yes. Dumb arrogance, no.
 

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Lmao this is freaking funny. OP you have to update us on what you do. Wouldn't it be better to organise a hotel room on your terms, or something similar? That way you set it up and have control.
You've got to have control and some strategy. Turning up at their place is the red flag here.
And I agree about comments on your ego - you may want to adjust your thinking a bit. Confidence, yes. Dumb arrogance, no.
Yeah, that's exactly what I thought too... offered to take care of business at a neutral site...will let you know the response I get back.
 

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And she chose you.... what makes you so special. I say that to say she's probably running the same game on other guys on OLD. My concern would be her being a skanky freak weirdo that did the same thing to another guy the night before.
I'm extremely muscular. Women who want random sex encounters choose muscular guys most often.
 

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I'm extremely muscular. Women who want random sex encounters choose muscular guys most often.
Just as a matter of interest OP, what's your age? Interesting statement you make here.
 

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Just as a matter of interest OP, what's your age? Interesting statement you make here.
37, will be 38 in a few months.

And that's not me saying it, it's what researchers have found many times when studying this type of thing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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