"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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weird gift for valentine's day

DJArlington

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i've been thinking about my ex-girlfriend, doing some analysis etc. i'm going after women right now, i was the one who dumped her, etc etc.

we started dating in january a few years ago and the following month came valentines day and she sent me one of her thongs in the mail with her perfume as my valentines day gift.

should i have seen that as a red flag that she was not long term material? the sex w/her was obviously off the hook. none of my friends had ever received such a thing for valentines day.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Scaramouche

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Dear Arlington,
Its contemptuous not weird,she's a dog,ignore her...
 

edger

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DJArlington said:
should i have seen that as a red flag that she was not long term material?
No. Why should you? That was a good gift, that was cool of her. Something a girl you're dating SHOULD do. Was she letting you have sex with her before she sent you it? Because if not, then I'd say she was being nothing more than a c*cktease, and you should've ditched her. But I don't know what happened, you'll have to tell me.
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Arlington,
Its contemptuous not weird,she's a dog,ignore her...
How do you figure that? What's so malicious about it? Bad advice.
 
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