Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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weird gift for valentine's day

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DJArlington

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i've been thinking about my ex-girlfriend, doing some analysis etc. i'm going after women right now, i was the one who dumped her, etc etc.

we started dating in january a few years ago and the following month came valentines day and she sent me one of her thongs in the mail with her perfume as my valentines day gift.

should i have seen that as a red flag that she was not long term material? the sex w/her was obviously off the hook. none of my friends had ever received such a thing for valentines day.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dear Arlington,
Its contemptuous not weird,she's a dog,ignore her...
 
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DJArlington said:
should i have seen that as a red flag that she was not long term material?
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No. Why should you? That was a good gift, that was cool of her. Something a girl you're dating SHOULD do. Was she letting you have sex with her before she sent you it? Because if not, then I'd say she was being nothing more than a c*cktease, and you should've ditched her. But I don't know what happened, you'll have to tell me.
 
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Scaramouche said:
Dear Arlington,
Its contemptuous not weird,she's a dog,ignore her...
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How do you figure that? What's so malicious about it? Bad advice.
 
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