weird feeling i get

[duffman360]

when i approach a girl i am confident, good body language, and i can speak well. But even thou i have confidence in my game i still feel nervous and i do not know why but it does not affect my game. Anyway i was wondering is this normal or is there a way to get rid of that nervous feeling.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

It's absolutely normal for everybody!
The more you do it, the more comfortable you become with that nervousness.

 

[jeffthechef]

Identify the fear.
Once you do that, I will be able to give you my input.
I am 100% sure you know what you're afraid of.

Usually it falls into one or more of these categories:

1. Fear of rejection.
2. Fear of future interactions.
3. Fear of others' responses.
4. Fear of success.

Here's a quick and simple way to look at it.
If your morals are pure/or close to, then what reason do others have to look at you with disdain and disgust? There's a reason why that nice guy (not AFC) that you may know is liked by everyone. He's nice and does good. Anyone who hates him is jealous and insecure. Sames goes with the ladies. Any of your guy friends who give you **** (and mean it), are looking at a reflection of their own failures. We're all a bunch of mirrors; that's how we find self in society. I can get even more philosophical if you want so reply if you do.

In summary: if you do good, then things will be good. This doesn't guarantee success with the ladies, but you will be good. Karma does exist, but sometimes you can't see it.:rock: :woo:

 

[kingy]

it probably does affect your game dude.

read anthony robbins - awaken the giant from within

this will break it down for you and how to change that feeling

 

[duffman360]

I have good news. I don't get that feeling any more after I talked to some more chicks on Saturday while I was at a concert.